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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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innerstrength100 · 24/02/2015 21:25

Oh *Kaykat, you poor thing. You are having such a horrible time of it right now. I am so sorry. Will send a prayer that this ALL comes good for you. You deserve a happy future, and happy relationships with your family.

QofF Are you feeling any better than you were a couple of weeks ago?

Tuo Thank you for your nightly prayers. Smile

Kaykat · 24/02/2015 21:42

It's more that DS saw him for what he was when living with him but now only seeing him once in a while he wants to believe that everything is wonderful about him and that I'm the bad one. When we were together DS never thought it was ok to cheat on me and treat me like dirt but now we are separated he tries to justify it so that he doesn't have to think badly of his dad. Everyone says he will see the truth in the end but I do often doubt that. I really hope in a few years time I will say that you were all right.

Now that the thing he found stressful is over and done with he's all happy again laughing and joking teenagers eh.

Tuo · 25/02/2015 01:35

Prayer for Lent: Day 7

Kay - I think that, hard as it is for you, you need to see it as a sign of how comfortable your DS is with you, how much he loves you and trusts you, that he says these things. It's all a bit 'backwards' (teenage logic), but I truly believe that if he didn't know 100% in his heart that he's safe with you, that you will never leave him or mess him around, that you'll always treat him consistently and not be strict one minute and lenient the next, then he wouldn't say these things. Teenagers rebel when they feel safe. He's frustrated and stressed and full of testosterone and angry at having had his life disrupted, and he knows he can hurt you by saying these things. But I don't think he'd really want to go and live with his dad permanently - even if his dad wanted him to, which I don't think he does. So I don't even think it's a case of your DS seeing the truth in the end: I think he sees it now. He doesn't always talk as if he sees it, because he's partly fighting against it still, but I am sure he knows it. I think you're doing everything right, and I'm sure that you will see your DS turn into the wonderful young man you're raising him to be in the years to come. In the meantime there will be rows and tears along the way, but I think that the chances of him rejecting you are very very slim. I'm praying that that makes some sort of sense to you - it's very late and I'm quite tired - and am praying for you and for your DS, for more moments of happiness and laughter and fewer moments of stress and tension.

Psalm 131, a prayer for peace and calm in the small things of life:

O Lord, my heart is not lifted up,
my eyes are not raised too high;
I do not occupy myself with things
too great and too marvellous for me.
But I have calmed and quieted my soul,
like a weaned child with its mother;
my soul is like the weaned child that is with me.

O Israel, hope in the Lord
from this time on and for evermore.

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BlackeyedSusan · 25/02/2015 07:51

have to remind ds's teacher about the agreement we have with the HT re homework.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/02/2015 11:24

dd had an accident on the way to school. not hurt thankfully, but Ht aware. a little reminder to the school that she does have difficulties. hopefully they will remember when the dwp gets in touch.

Anjelica27 · 25/02/2015 18:13

BlackeyedSusan, I'm so sorry to hear about your dd's accident. I hope she is ok x

Kaykat · 25/02/2015 23:19

Thanks for your comforting and insightful words Tuo its hard to see the wood for the trees when you're in the middle of it.

Still ill and in pain hope I can get back to normal soon.

FaithLoveandGrace · 25/02/2015 23:55

Sorry to jump in and out so much lately, am reading & praying through the thread and always keep you all in prayer. Am in a pretty bad place right now re self harm and things & really need God's love and grace to help get me through, as does DP.

Tuo · 26/02/2015 00:06

Prayers for Lent: Day 8

Praying for you right now, FLaG, that you will know God's love and comfort in this difficult time. Praying for you to have the strength not to hurt yourself, but to remember that prayer from last week: God does not hate anything that He has created... and that includes you, his precious daughter.

Praying for you to feel better son, Kay. Please don't overdo it with doing in to work when you're not well. And, yes, it can be so hard to see the wood for the trees - much easier when it's someone else's problem, someone else's teenager!

And BES - praying your DD is OK and that she will be able to access the support that she needs with the help of DLA.

A much-loved prayer tonight from the Northumbria community's compline for Wednesday:

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep me from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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BlackeyedSusan · 26/02/2015 07:48

shattered. there were late night ructions, the soft toy stealing stamping rattling the downstairs lights wailing sort of ructions. the neighbour may also have shouted and sworn... as he could hear two floor below.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/02/2015 14:04

I am struggling. absolutely shattered, just managing the minimum ie: for the children. the rest will have to wait.

Dutchoma · 26/02/2015 15:38

I hope that the weekend arrives just in time for you and is free from stress.

innerstrength100 · 26/02/2015 18:25

FLaG sorry to hear you are struggling. Have you got any more counselling sessions booked, and how is that going?

FaithLoveandGrace · 26/02/2015 22:07

Thank you tuo your prayers are always so lovely.

inner I'm seeing my counsellor next Wednesday. Things are going sort of well with her but are really tough as we're covering some really difficult issues.

Hoping to catch up with the thread soon!

weegiemum · 26/02/2015 22:10

I keep meaning to get on here and post and now I'm doing it in desperation, sorry!

Dd1 (15) was diagnosed yesterday with Anorexia Nervosa. I'm trying to deal with it, the support team are great but my heart is breaking for my lovely, lovely dd.

squishinglittlefatcheeks · 26/02/2015 23:04

Hello all. Just popped over from the Muslim tea room and wanted to say a heartfelt thank you to everyone who has posted kind messages of support when times have been difficult for many Muslims. I am sorry I haven't read the full thread, but you are all in my prayers x

Kaykat · 27/02/2015 00:23

Welcome squishing thank you for your prayers and I pray that you have all the strength, wisdom and peace that you need to deal with your family difficulties.

weegiemum that must be devastating for you I pray that your DD gets all the support she needs to overcome this. It's good that she has a support team.

FLaG and BES sorry to hear that you are struggling and I pray that you both feel better soon.

Tuo · 27/02/2015 01:56

Prayers for Lent: Day 9

Aargh... it's really late. I got embroiled in some financial planning type stuff, which isn't really what I do, and it took ages. I got to the bottom of it, though... Or at least, I think I did. I await being told that my calculations are all wrong now!

Weegiemum - it's really good to see you, but I am so sorry to hear about your DD, that must be so sad for you. However, it's good that she has support in place, as well as a loving mum to support her too of course. I pray for her, that she can come to love herself as God loves her. And praying for you and all the family as you support her through this time. Don't forget to look after yourselves too. How is your own health, Weegie?

Keeping prayers going for FLaG and BES and for anyone else feeling low and stressed at this time. Also praying for MHD's health and thinking of Momey - how are you feeling now that half term is over?

From tonight's Northumbria Compline:

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Tuo · 27/02/2015 01:57

Oops! Tired fingers hit enter too soon! Here's the prayer:

Save us, Lord, while we are awake,
guard us while we are asleep;
that, awake, we may watch with Christ,
and, asleep, may rest in His peace. Amen.

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Tuo · 27/02/2015 01:58

Oh, and I missed squishing's lovely post. Thank you for coming in: you're very welcome. Praying for peace and understanding between faiths.

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weegiemum · 27/02/2015 08:10

Tuo thanks for asking, Im battling on, still struggling with mobility but thems the breaks in my life.

I'm also still seeing my own psychiatrist and she's liasing with dd;s team, w
which is good.

You start out in this parenting lark and it all seems so easy - then theyre teens and things go belly up! Sounds nuts but the toddler bit was so much easier!

howoapproachthis · 27/02/2015 08:16

hy weegie mum. im really sorry to hear about ur dd :( hugs to you

BlackeyedSusan · 27/02/2015 12:00

yeah, at least with toddler tantrums you can pick them up and carry them off...

Kaykat · 27/02/2015 14:33

I can sympathise with that weegiemum I was completely unprepared for how difficult it would be to have a teenager. My memory could be tricking me but I thought I was an easy teenager and I assumed DS would be the same.

BlackeyedSusan · 27/02/2015 14:45

I remember how horrendous it felt to be a teenager. all those hormones.

I finally slept, but feel woozy still. need to get the dcs. need to get dd's sports stuff.

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