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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

[post edited by MNHQ]

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QofF · 19/12/2014 07:03

Innerspace feel for you so much but you are doing so well although you might not feel it. You are doing all the right things and all of those things will be helping God bring something good out of this mess and pain as he has promised. But nothing including God is going to be a magic wand that is going to wave away the pain overnight. But it will go away. You aren't destined to spend the rest of your life feeling like this.
Kay I am praying your Christmastime will be resolved without causing distress to you or your ds.
Mhd how are you feeling?
Faith praying for motivation and for the meds to kick in.

innerstrength100 · 19/12/2014 10:49

Thank you so much for these lovely prayers and messages. MHD , your last post made me cry. Thank you - I will look for the book you have recommended. Yes I am in utter bewilderment, as well as grief. It is a mindblowing mix, but I know you are all right that this is going to take time, and I need to accept that, and just sit with it. I read this yesterday:

Give time, time.
Time heals almost everything. Give time, time
It takes time to drive out the darkness from our minds and from our hearts. It takes time to heal our wounds and accept the presence of emotional pain into our lives. So give time, time.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/12/2014 11:50

Not having the best day. Boss is being horrid Sad

Kaykat · 19/12/2014 12:18

Think ex has backed down on his horrid plans for DS on Christmas Day. DS is pleased he should have a good day now and mine hopefully not too bad either.

Am praying for your work situation Mome.

MadHairChristmasEveryone · 19/12/2014 18:33

Jut popping in with prayers for innerstrength and Mome tonight.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

It's the holiday! Squee!

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 19/12/2014 19:32

Took the children into town to look at the lights tonight. They are very pretty this year. And, thank God, we have survived until the holidays.

FaithLoveandGrace · 19/12/2014 19:43

Thank you very much tuo and qoff. This morning when I woke up I didn't feel anxious for the first time in goodness knows how long! I think these tablets are finally starting to work. Still feel sick and a little down / unmotivated but at least I'm not feeling anxious.

mome I hope and pray your day improved and you're having a relaxing evening.

kay that's really good your ex backed down. Hope he sticks to it!

It is indeed the holidays Grin hopefully it won't be too stressful for you all in the run up to Christmas. I managed to finish my Christmas shopping today, very happy! Only thing we need to buy now before Christmas is the veg.

inner things will get easier in time. Sitting and praying with you through this difficult time. Flowers

Tuo · 20/12/2014 00:33

Prayer for Advent: Day 20 - Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice!

Let's rejoice tonight that FaithLoveandGrace is feeling a little better and pray that this improvement continues. We are with you, FLG, and praying for you.

Let's rejoice too that Kay's ex has backed down on divisive Christmas plans and pray that both Kay and her DS have a wonderful day.

Let's rejoice that it's the holidays and pray for calmer days for BES and her DC and for better health for MHD (not least because I know that the next week is going to be manic for your DH, MHD).

In fact, I feel we should pray for all priests/pastors/ministers/whatever-your-particular-denomination-calls them, LLMs/Readers, ordinands and other Church leaders at this busy time. Thinking especially of thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, niminypiminy, MaryBS and anyone else I've forgotten.

And let's pray for innerstrength as she takes small steps towards a happier future. 'Give time time' is a good mantra, innerstrength.

And let's pray too for Momey, that her work situation improved today and that she will have a lovely weekend. Is your boss often horrid, Momey? Or is this a pre-Christmas extra-super-stressed and lashing out thing? (Neither is acceptable, obviously, but the latter is more comprehensible.) Praying that s/he will see how unhelpful her/his behaviour is being.

A very short prayer today from tonight's Northumbria compline:

Lighten our darkness, Lord.
Let the light of Your presence
dispel the shadows of night. Amen

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 20/12/2014 07:46

Yes the day improved. He can be moody sometimes when he's stressed. And irritable at times when tired. I'm off work now until the new year. Hurrah!

Thank you for prayers. They definitely helped.

Boiler not working but British Gas out this afternoon. Washing machine is blowing rcd switch but I'm going to try and replace heating element myself later today with the help of YouTube videos. So busy day ahead. Hoping nothing else goes wrong now though! As I still haven't bought all Christmas presents and this is all squeezing my finances.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 20/12/2014 08:24

Tuo There was me thinking it was rather wonderful that you'd used the same prayer two days running - "Rejoice .... again I say rejoice!"

Then I scrolled back and saw it's been more than 2 or 3 days! Eventually I got the message Xmas Smile

Really appreciating the prayers from the Northumbria community and the image of light shining in the darkness through advent

Thinking of you all as Christmas approaches for us all, and our families
Here dd and ds are looking forward to Christmas and buying and wrapping pressies for each other and for us to put under our tree - there's a whole heap now with very little input from me Xmas Smile Seems there are some blessings from having two teenagers in the house!
I'm just glad to have got to the end of very busy term with little ones in pre-school (actually as usual it's some of the bigger people who've been more troublesome!) - and to have the 2 week holiday ahead

Rest of the family doing OK I think (a difficult Christmas for us all) - thanks to those of you who've been praying for my DSis and family. I will probably tell her that people here, and other friends, have been praying for her when I see her just after Christmas (she is going away with her two dd's for Christmas itself) - I think she will be encouraged to know that people have been thinking/praying for her Thanks

Tuo · 20/12/2014 10:38

Grin Juggling... I've unilaterally declared this "Gaudete Week"!

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JugglingFromHereToThere · 20/12/2014 11:00

Great words Tuo for us all I'm sure. As I mentioned on another thread - daily gratitudes - those were the words of our school song/anthem so deeply imbedded in my inner being!

Have always been especially fond of ...... "(be careful for nothing) ... but in everything by prayer (and supplication) with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God"

Which I guess is just what we're doing on here Thanks
Prayers for all (and Quaker "holding in the light") through Christmas and beyond x

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 20/12/2014 11:03

well I am thankful for cough medicine. still coughing but not to the point of being a bit short of oxygen and dizzy.
tidying/pottering/packing/sleeping cleaning day here... though so far I have managed... sleeping Xmas Blush Xmas Hmm Xmas Grin

Dutchoma · 20/12/2014 11:05

The most important thing (sleeping) managed BES.

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 20/12/2014 12:28

Gaudete, gaudete Christus est natus, ex Maria virgine gaudeteeeeeeee

Love that one nearly as much as Veni veni Emmanuel Xmas Smile

Dutchoma · 20/12/2014 12:49

And 'In dulci jubilo'

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 20/12/2014 16:15

Washing machine fixed.

Boiler needs part ordered and will be fixed Monday. Perfect end to the day really. Hurrah!

My work Christmas do tonight but my boss will be charming and sloshed no doubt Wink

Dutchoma · 20/12/2014 17:33

Well done on the washing machine Momey. I'm well impressed.

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 20/12/2014 17:46

Nativity play rehearsal successfully completed, my Smallest Shepherd only needed to be slung for the last 5 minutes of the second run through (I opted out of the third one from the start, the one for non-speaking parts that we were meant to be at, because it was exactly on dinner and bathtime for him and I can guarantee he wouldn't behave!) Roll on tomorrow's performance! Hopefully he'll be old enough to cope with taking part in the Christmas Eve performance next year, at the moment it's at his bedtime so not worth the potential screaming, acting up and general wrecking it for the older ones.

FaithLoveandGrace · 20/12/2014 18:20

Struggling this evening. Very much struggling with wanting to use unhealthy coping mechanisms, but at the same time knowing it's not the right way to deal with things- if that makes sense. It's an ongoing battle in my mind at the moment. DP is ill in bed so I can't talk to him about it or even just have a cuddle.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 20/12/2014 19:12

Enjoy PurplePidging - I remember when my youngest was a shepherd too, also a wise man, and a galloping round the aisles donkey Xmas Grin
Take some pics if you can, either with a camera or in your mind's eye Xmas Smile
"Mary kept all these things and treasured them in her heart"

Thinking of you tonight Faith x

PurplePidjingThroughTheSnow · 20/12/2014 20:16

He was a shepherd last year too - as was I because he wasn't actually walking independently at the time! I regret not volunteering him the year before, he was 5 weeks old on Boxing Day Xmas Wink

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 20/12/2014 21:24

oh for goodness sake, I have just had an image of mary taking loads of selfies, as is the want of the yoofs of today. [old gimmeremotion]

I have mended the computer desk as ds broke it and h broke it even further. the age old precision engineering method... of hitting it with a hammer washed up, two loads of washing and some tidying but ds and dd have been getting out a lot of toys and ds has been annoying people being silly and knocking things off.

Dutchoma · 20/12/2014 22:05

I have been 'talking' to Roomforalittleone. Some of you may know that she is expecting dc5 (21 weeks) and as with the last pregnancy suffering with hyperemesis. She has not said anything as initially the pregnancy did not seem viable at all, but it is now stable.
She is leading the main service for the first time at the church where her dh is the curate. She expected to feel better than she is and is at this moment preparing for the service on a wayward computer.
On top of this dd3 has a very high temperature so I have said I would post a prayer request for her. She is tired and worried and, apart from doing the service very busy, anxious and tired.

FaithLoveandGrace · 20/12/2014 22:30

Oh gosh, my friend has hyperemisis and it's horrendous. Please assure her (and her dd3) of my prayers.