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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

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Tuo · 06/10/2014 01:00

Popping in quickly with prayers for all, but especially prayers of gratitude for BES's near miss and Oma's too, prayers for PA's DD as she moves to her new house, and for Kay, hoping for smoother times ahead with XH and for support from the school for DS.

Continuing to pray for the situation in the Middle East, remembering in particular the family and friends of Alan Henning.

A prayer of St Augustine:

Watch, dear Lord, with those who wake, or watch, or weep tonight, and let your angels protect those who sleep. Tend the sick. Refresh the weary. Sustain the dying. Calm the suffering. Pity the distressed. We ask this for the sake of your love. Amen.

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Questionoffaith · 06/10/2014 08:38

Kay let's hope a corner has been turned! Could well be that cannabis had an effect, did he smoke a lot? I know in the past when dh had smoked quite a lot it had a definite effect on him and while that isn't to blame I am sure for his depression now as there are so many factors involved I am sure it had its part to play.

Kaykat · 06/10/2014 16:44

He never smoked it at all then met OW and began smoking it with her. I blame it for a complete personality change which seems to be permanent. DS won't go to school and the school were totally unhelpful. Told me i might get fined and suggested GP and he won't go there either. Feeling like a complete failure as a parent. I just don't know what to do with him and really feeling the lack of a supportive father.

PurplePidjin · 06/10/2014 17:11

kaykat try your local youth club. there are less officious channels we can go through to support families that might suit ds more?

PurplePidjin · 06/10/2014 17:12

that's the council run one btw, check their website for something like the early intervention service

Dutchoma · 06/10/2014 18:36

That is pretty awful Kay. How do the school suggest you get him to school being the size he is and the size you are? The Educational Welfare officer needs to be involved and pretty soon too.

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2014 18:46

ring the educational welfare officer yourself and ask for help?

Kaykat · 06/10/2014 22:21

The school is very popular and has a waiting list so I don't think they are too bothered about losing a difficult student. Has anyone got experience of educational welfare? Are they supportive? I have a friend whose DD has been refusing school on and off for years so I am gong to ask her advice. Is early intervention to do with mental health?

BlackeyedSusan · 06/10/2014 23:43

good luck Kay.

ds has not been so good today. i have been thumped so have a sore back and he has kicked his school bag.

Tuo · 07/10/2014 00:24

Praying for you, BES, and for your DS. Hope your back isn't too sore tomorrow.

Also praying for Kay - it's a really difficult situation, and I don't know what to suggest (could you go to the GP on your own and talk about the situation if your DS won't come with you?), but I am holding you in prayer and hoping that there will be an improvement in the situation soon.

And also thinking of QoF - praying for you and your DH.

I've just finished a piece of work (only a few weeks late Blush) and feel as if a small weight has been lifted from me, so thanking God for that tonight. Now to start on the next one, which is even later, but marginally less urgent! (When I say 'now', I mean 'tomorrow'... right now I'm going to get some sleep!)

A slightly belated prayer of St Francis, whose feast-day was this last weekend:

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon:
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope
where there is darkness, light
where there is sadness, joy.

O divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life. Amen.

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BlessedAssurance · 07/10/2014 09:43

Kay that is just horribleThanks.Praying for your son. Wrt to your XH, may the lovely attitude continue. It makes lifes easier really. If only he would help with your son. Hope you will be able to find some much needed help.

BlessedAssurance · 07/10/2014 09:58

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madhairday · 07/10/2014 11:34

Blessed :) Thanks That's lovely. My dd made a similar decision at just three, people said how could she actually be making a proper decision, she's brainwashed etc etc but actually I saw it make this incredible difference to her, it was really lovely. Age is no barrier, God loves to work in all his children :)

Kay oh heck, that is such a difficult situation. Remind me how old ds is now? I don't know what to suggest either, would any of the staff at school be helpful eg pastoral care co-ordinator? Praying for you and for him and praying that dh turns a corner and is actually nice to you and stops turning ds against you. Thanks

BES oh that's a horrible experience with the car, some tossers out there! So glad you're OK. Hope ds has calmed down a bit now and you have a better day.

Tuo yay on getting the work finished and here's to the next bit Wine :) Thankyou for posting the prayer of St Francis, I really love that one. Praying for you in your busy life.

PA glad you enjoyed your time with the dds and praying for your dd as she settles into her new home, praying for friendships for her and peace for you.

Oma hello :)

Hope Blue is ok, haven't seen her around much lately? Also niminy - though I've seen them on FB so hopefully all is well.

We're having the secondary school choosing woes right now: We have 3 choices - dd's school which is lovely, not sure it's right for ds. Grammar school - he's passed the entrance exam, school is amazing, great academic opportunity etc etc. But I get the feeling they are super pushy about sport (esp rugby) and that's so not ds - also their IT is somewhat antiquated and that is ds' big thing...so he;s not sure. Then we have a brand new CofE/Catholic academy opening up 5 minutes down the road, he could walk there with his mates, lovely building etc but it's so unknown in terms of ethos, grades etc....we have an open evening tonight about it (not at it as it's still only half built!!) so hopefully we'll find out some more. I feel so stressed about it all....

howtoapproachthis · 07/10/2014 11:52

i just told dh i had thought and prayed long and hard and decided i wanted to divorce. i feel very sad. he is very sad too. its wick that i told him during one of his 'nice' spells. he thinks i didn't give enough time for our relationship to develop again. he also said it would have been nice for dd to have a mum and dad together. i feel guilty and sad, but i have been praying and talked to God a lot about this moment and felt Gods peace and presence all morning. surely that means its a go ahead from God that it is the right decision... however right now i feel that if dh phoned and pleaded and said he would change and understood about his attitude needing changing etc, i would surely change my mind. i wish i felt stronger about the decision. yet it needed to be made, i can't stay in limbo forever, going from nice to arguments and vice versa. big sigh.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 07/10/2014 14:09

((hugs)) lovely lady. I want to say something profound but I'm worried whatever I said would be trite. But I'm here and listening if it helps x

BlackeyedSusan · 07/10/2014 14:34

off for a meeting with dd's teacher and to get ds after football. it may not be pretty. hoping for less violence today.

Dutchoma · 07/10/2014 14:35

Sending hugs and prayers.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/10/2014 20:20

so far so good. lots of upset but no hurting.

BlackeyedSusan · 07/10/2014 23:34

just sent an email to the SEN support services to get advice about the situation with ds and school.

we are back to daily meltdowns. bad behaviour is creeping into school... he almost got himself into a fight with another boy with autism. (they swung for each other with feet and fists but missed) ds has barged into someone's bag...(they were unhurt) and has kicked the school door (it was unhurt)

Tuo · 07/10/2014 23:36

Praying tonight, in particular, for howto... I know how hard this has been for you and I really don't think anyone could have tried harder to make things work. The inner peace you felt after making your decision speaks volumes to my mind. It's going to continue to be hard, though, so I am praying that you will continue to feel God's presence with you and that you will remember that we are all here, thinking of you, and praying.

Praying too, for MHD, making the decision about secondary school. I pray that you will be guided to choose what is right for your DS.

And continuing to pray for BES and for Kay, and also for lovely Oma and amber and Momey and BA and anyone else who's reading and whom I've forgotten.

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BlackeyedSusan · 08/10/2014 07:29

also contacted IPSEA.

will have to contact the school again too to push for an answer to the specific question.

BlessedAssurance · 08/10/2014 08:21

Had to have my post deleted as i felt it was a bit i am too happy post.
Bes nothing to help with but sending prayers. Why is the school not taking it seriously. Why don't they want to help you?. This is very sad.

BlessedAssurance · 08/10/2014 08:26

Howto no words of wisdom here again praying. Really wondering why i ever post as i have zero help for anybody. Aghhhh.

Dutchoma · 08/10/2014 09:53

There is no reason BA why you cannot share with us that you are happy. We need to hear how God is working in our life and how much He has blessed us.

I am posting a prayer for Amber on here today, I don't have a clue, really what is going on, but she is feeling unhappy and that makes me sad. So I'm praying for God's blessing on a day that is bound to be hard for her and thanking God for her courage to look always on the bright side and being prepared to carry on however wounded she feels.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/10/2014 10:30

Sorry to hear that Amber. Cake