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A new Christian prayer thread for Summer...

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Tuo · 08/07/2014 01:38

Welcome to our new prayer thread for summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, for her dad to recover well after his recent operation;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt, and also for her decision about her DS's schooling, and for his health;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for health for both her DC, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for her life with her new baby, for her relationship with her MIL, and for her family who are far away;

... Bluetinkerbell, for her DH's training to go well;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DidotheDodo, thanking God for the safe arrival of her granddaughter;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for her finances, for bullying issues around her DD, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time; also praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her brother who has been out of contact - may be be safe and well, and may he be in touch with Ginger or her sister soon;

... Iwantdogger, for her pregnancy - may her little one hand on in there and grow and develop strong and healthy;

... jan2014 for her decision to split with her DH, and for health and energy for her; also praying for her brother and his family, for his difficulties with alcohol;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her and her DS as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce;

... MadHairDay, for health for all in the MHD household, and for less stressful times for her DC

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum;

... PositiveAttitude, as she gets used to living with her DH again after a long time apart and for her new work as a Deacon in her church; also praying for PA's parents' health, and for her DDs and DS in their various situations;

... Question of Faith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to rediscover their love for one another and their lives together;

... Roomforalittleone, for her DS who has pneumonia, and for a good outcome from her Reader panel;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, after the loss of a close family friend, and for the work that she does with others who are bereaved;

... tunnocksteacake and her family as they cope with her DH's illness;

... weegiemum for strength to cope with her illness; and for

... ZingWhale as she approaches the end of her pregnancy.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen.

OP posts:
Dutchoma · 30/09/2014 20:58

I so wish my dd was still a pre-teen. But she is 32. Would you not have expected her to have grown out of it?

PurplePidjin · 30/09/2014 21:55

that's my age, Oma and i seem to have managed it?

BlackeyedSusan · 30/09/2014 23:26

are you supposed to grow out of things?

oops Blush

BlackeyedSusan · 01/10/2014 08:27

it is supposed to be spelling tests today. please pray for ds as he is not ahappy boy. His ASD is coming out a lot more recently. he has not been able to practise. it took until after five to calm him enough to be able to drive safely. a lot more work was required at home to get him through his distress. he was capable of coping with reading, bath and tea at 7ish. too late for anything else.

Dutchoma · 01/10/2014 09:05

Prayers for ds and praying that the support in school will soon be put in place. Growing up BES? One lives in hope.

PA has asked to say Hi. Her dd1 is living in an 8 bedroom house...alone. She needs some friends. Please pray, asks PA

I have shared an interview with Canon Andrew White on my Facebook page.
Please continue to pray.

cloutiedumpling · 01/10/2014 16:55

DO - I have come across a similar situation in the past. Could it be that your DD is struggling to understand where you are coming from and so is misinterpreting it? You are doing what you think is the best thing possible - praying. Could it be that because she doesn't appreciate the value of prayer she thinks that you aren't doing anything practical and is frustrated by it?

BA - good to hear DS is sleeping better.

Praying for BES and PA's dcs

Dutchoma · 01/10/2014 17:29

I think that she expected God to dance to her tune and when He didn't she tought she could safely say that He didn't exist. She thinks it is clever to say 'there is no god and Richard Dawkins is his prophet'. Se is not prepared to think it through; it's sad, because I believe she is missing out but nothing can be done about it. Even God Himself does not force her and nor can I. I can just go on loving her insofar as she lets me and pray for her health and happiness.

madhairday · 01/10/2014 20:02

Oma Thanks I read those comments and was praying for you as I thought they must have hurt you. And wanted to thank you for spurring me on to pray for the middle east - Tuo too, for your prayer today. Joining with you, and will listen to the interview too. I'm sorry I've been a bit sparse lately, we have been really very busy with work and ministry here, it was ds' birthday today and I have not stopped, but you lot are often in my thoughts and prayers and I'll try and read and pray through properly in the morning as I have a few hours free then. God bless you all Thanks

BlessedAssurance · 01/10/2014 20:31

Ouchoma that is really Sad that your dd is being a bit challenging. Some things kids never grow out of their issues but there is always hope. One example is my own sister, who has been lazy all of her 41 yrs just decided she was going to start her own business and she has. The whole family is Shock. Your dd might just one day through your prayers come to see life the way God intended her to see.

PA and Bes praying.

Tuo · 01/10/2014 21:10

Oma - nothing to add, except that I 'rediscovered' God in my mid-40s, so there's always hope. As you know, DH (and DD1) thinks very much like your DD. I pray for him without telling him I'm doing it, as there's no point arguing about it. In the last few years, I would say that his understanding and acceptance have increased fractionally, but I figure that I'm in this for the long-haul, so will keep hoping and praying. I will think of your DD too.

Also praying for PA's DD - that God will send her people who will bring fun and joy and friendship into her life.

And praying for BES - that her DS get better support in school so that he's better able to switch off when he comes home.

And continuing to think also of Kay and MHD (happy birthday to Master HairDay) and BA and howto (How was DD today? Hoping no ill effects.) and GingerCurl and anyone I've forgotten.

And keeping prayer going to Canon Andrew White, for Christians in Iraq and Syria, for other groups at risk of persecution by IS, and for the whole situation. I am adapting a prayer from tonight's Northumbria compline for all affected by this terrible situation:

The peace of God
be over them to shelter them,
under them to uphold them,
about them to protect them,
behind them to direct them,
ever with them to save them.

And may God's peace also be with all on this thread. Amen.

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Questionoffaith · 01/10/2014 21:15

So hard Oma. As has been said all you can do is pray for her and leave it to God. But easy to say and not easy to do. My dh isnt a Christian. He is not a full on atheist and has some spiritual side to him ( been exploring Buddhism a bit) and I wish wish wish he would see the reality of Christianity. I know it would help him and give him some answers in this tough period he is going through but he is not interested. And I know if I tried to talk about it he would switch off and that would be it. Can I ask for prayers for him. Things are very tough at work and looks like the company may have to close. He has just started to improve recently and I just pray they will find the money somehow to keep going. We haven't reconciled but things are a lot better and he is here most of the time now. He has been like a wounded animal the last few months and I am worried re the effect redundancy will have on him. Where we live has horrendous unemployment issues and moving isnt an option due to family commitments so the chances go him finding something else is slim.
Have been following canon andrew on social media and continuing to pray.

BlessedAssurance · 01/10/2014 21:45

Questionoffaith my husband is the same in that he is not a believer. He has a doctorate in physics so you can imagine what i am up against. All i can say is pray, pray and more praying. Dh used to laugh at me and mock my faith a bit. He drives me and the kids to church every sunday,drops us off and goes to a coffee shop. Church finishes he comes and takes us home. Every single sunday but never stays for the serviceSad. he will be staying this sunday though because i joined the worship team and he has yo watch the kids:). Praying that things in your lives will get better and that a solution will be found for your dh's work situation.

madhairday · 02/10/2014 10:27

Praying, Tuo Blessed and Question for your dhs and for strength for you as you continue to keep persevering in prayer for them. Praying too for Oma as you hold your dd before God. I know so many people who were staunch atheists - including my dad - and had their worldview shattered by encounter with God, so praying that for all those named here and all those we know who we long to come to know God and the hope God brings to us.

Praying through this thread now and holding each one of you up to Jesus, praying for blessing, strength, courage.

cloutiedumpling · 02/10/2014 12:18

Thanks for that MHD. Needed that reminder that Jesus is all around this morning

BlessedAssurance · 02/10/2014 13:52

Thank you MHD

BlackeyedSusan · 02/10/2014 18:41

more prayer needed for school. it is getting worse.

howtoapproachthis · 03/10/2014 09:25

praying BES thinking of you today

db is unbeliever also. its so hard, when you look at all the suffering in the world you can see why people hate/don't believe in God, unless of course you know him personally. its getting them to take that first step and its so frustrating cos we can't make them do anything, except pray for them, and for me anyway i find it hard to keep the consistency up when i don't see any fruit of the prayer. this thread has been a reminder to keep praying

dd was absolutely fine thank you for prayers, will make sure i don't do that again! silly me. i have been so wiped out. im seeing the marriage counsellor myself this morning, hoping for some kind of clarification on what i am feeling/ guidance.

OfCourseThisIsNotMyUsualName · 03/10/2014 14:42

off to get the dcs. hoping that ds is not too distressed.

amberlight · 04/10/2014 19:26

Still here and praying in the background...

Dutchoma · 04/10/2014 20:05

We can see you Amber, don't be shy!

PositiveAttitude · 04/10/2014 20:29

Hi everyone, sorry for being absent for too long. Life is a bit mad. I have had my hours increased for work, which is really good from an income point of view, but I had made the decision about the college course - doing a 2 year course in just 1 year and I am finding it hard to keep on top of everything I need to do. Although I have to say that I am loving everything I am doing right now, work, study, family, homelife etc.....all good.

Thank you for your prayers for DD1. Today she moved out of her empty house and has moved into a 12 bedroomed house, just next door. I pray that she will make good friends with someone and settle very well.

Yesterday I took DS to London where we met up with DD1 and DD2 and we all went to the Cake and Bake show. We had an amazing time!!

I will now read through and have a catch up on my praying for you all.

BlackeyedSusan · 05/10/2014 20:55

thank god for another close escape and not a tragedy. had to breake really hard on the trsffic island joining the motorway as the adjacent car could not stay in his own lane and I was fast becoming the fillng in a car sandwich. lucky not to be hit from behind.

Dutchoma · 05/10/2014 21:36

Thank God indeed BES. You must have some really mad drivers in your part of the world. Was there any damage or did you escape with the shock?

This evening a ponytailed, bearded cyclist decided to turn right in front of the bus I was on. didn't look behind or he would have seen the bus. He stopped when the bus driver hooted at him, but turned the air blue and kept going on at the driver. It was really awful and not at all the driver's fault, although he apologised and said he was 'tired'. I think it was entirely the fault of the cyclist and was pretty shocked by his very angry language.

BlackeyedSusan · 05/10/2014 22:59

no damage. miraculous. I could have touched his car if the window had been open.

Kaykat · 05/10/2014 23:36

I had an odd few days. XH has been surprisingly friendly and I in turn tried to reassure him on a couple of things which were making him paranoid. I have noticed he is very paranoid since he smoked the cannabis. Who knows if being amicable will stop him trying to alienate DS we will have to wait and see. Meanwhile DS was wavering about going to school but I think we have a plan for tomorrow I will go in with him to speak to student support and hope she will be sympathetic.