Back the only way I can explain my views to you is that I do not experience the Cognitive Dissonance, with what you see as contradictory in the Bible, you would assume I do.
The only dichotomous element to my Faith is the element regarding the consequences of choosing to believe on Christ, since He was the fulfilment of the Law.
I believe ordinary human beings were not capable of fulfilling the Law because, which aspect of the Law was appropriate in which situation, is impossible to ascertain, from a human perspective. Only From God's perspective, is it possible to navigate through this. Believing on Christ allows us to ascertain God's perspective, as in Him we know all things.
There are paradoxes, which some would call contradictions and I would see as balance in the Bible. The motivation behind actions, rather than the actions themselves, is key.
The NT argues that with the Grace, that believing on Christ provides, everything is lawful but not everything is prudent. There is much mystery, but what I do not understand fully in the present and take in Faith and I have a continued Hope for greater Revelation.
Yes, I am the sort that is fascinated by paradoxes, finding the balance and context for apparently contradictory views. It is their mystery which I find inspiring and compelling. I am never bored, only sometimes weary of thinking too much.