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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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amberlight · 01/06/2014 07:47

Prayers for each of you, continuing.
And prayers of thanks here - latest hospital check was OK.

sunshinemmum · 01/06/2014 15:37

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jan2014 · 01/06/2014 16:41

dh really upsetting me, making decisions now about when he is available to work and so affecting the contact, without consulting me. so upset. feeling so emotional all day today. thought once his studies were over i would get more of a say in contact times. struggling to cope too with dd.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 01/06/2014 19:27

My ExH changes when he works and sees kids all the time but it's shift work. I'm always exhausted and I have to plan everything either with the kids in tow or pay for babysitting/ childminding instead. It also means he never has them every other weekend. So I do understand how frustrating this must be for you, especially if things were better before.

Can you send him an e-mail suggesting he gives you more notice so you can plan around it? How much say does he have on times he can work? If he can book specific days off he needs to start doing that asap. As it must feel like he couldn't care less about how you plan your days or get time off.

I finally reached a compromise that ExH would send me his shift pattern by e-mail and I'd write it on the calendar.

jan2014 · 01/06/2014 20:18

it is so frustrating, i have reached the conclusion its his life and he doesn't care about mine. this all blew up because i asked him to keep free one day in a months time, and he says he has already sorted it without telling me or asking me. so fed up. hes only doing relief work so i assume its more flexible, yet he says he needs to 'earn a wage' so has to take whatever.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 01/06/2014 20:34

Yes that's what my ExH often says. I'm now getting to the stage though where I simply don't rely on him at all. So sad really. I think mine is loosing out as he sees them so little and they're growing so fast. He'll regret it one day but it'll be too late. I still feel the frustration rise sometimes and I have to let go again and give it to God. It's an ongoing battle to remain free and keep forgiving.

Anyway this isn't about me but know I'm praying for you and I get it x

jan2014 · 02/06/2014 13:56

mome that must be so very difficult for you, especially because you don't have much family help. i am lucky in that mum helps me, but i don't want to be a burden on her because she works very hard as well.

i think the main reasons why i was so upset was because things haven't been good up till now, he hasn't seen very much of her at all and the contact has been inconsistent, and i was given the impression that when his course finished this would all change - ie more contact, and at times that suited us both. but no, and this is not because of his shift work, as he can choose at the minute when he wants to work. this is because he is suiting himself. so thats why i just got a bit of a shock, as i had my hopes up. i know now to never expect anything but him putting himself first and anything else is a bonus.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 02/06/2014 17:02

It's so hard Jan Sad. Many ((hugs)) for you. I guess our marriages wouldn't have failed if they thought about others than themselves though x

jan2014 · 02/06/2014 18:37

well this is true!! how did you find settling into your church, where you already going with your ex? im finding it so hard to settle into my new church. its a big change for me as i am used to most people knowing me, and now no one knows me and its so hard, because most of the mums have partners so don't tend to easily be latchable onto (if that makes sense) and all the single people without kids have their own group of friends which is hard to break into when you have a child. when i go for coffee i still feel really awkward waiting for someone to come and talk to me, so i have stopped going now. everythings just getting on top of me

neverthebride · 02/06/2014 20:56

I could do with a prayer if anyone has a moment.

Please pray for me to be stronger and stop doing the things that make me hate myself.

Thank you x

Dutchoma · 02/06/2014 21:12

Welcome neverthebride. Praying for you right now. Also praying that you will find help and support on this thread and also in real life. God loves you, so don't hate yourself

JugglingFromHereToThere · 02/06/2014 22:01

DSis seems to have had a good first day in her new job, with nice and supportive people to work with. DNiece happy to go to breakfast and after-school club. All good so far. Thanks for your prayers, I may tell her that people are thinking of her. I phoned tonight to say that I had been thinking of her today Thanks
Never hate yourself neverthebride - be your own best friend?

Questionoffaith · 02/06/2014 22:10

Praying for you all and Jan especially praying for you that some doors open to new friendships at your new church.
Neverthebride am praying for you and welcome. I second what Oma has said. Don't hate yourself for doing things you wish you didn't. We all do those things but remember that you are still loved despite them. They may be things that are actually fine, it's just your perspective on things making you think they are negative or if they aren't, and they are negative actions remember we are all guilty of the same, you are not on your own and forgiveness is just a prayer away. As is the strength to keep fighting against the temptation to keep doing the same things.
Feeling rather flat, dh been round as always, we watched a film together and that was nice and he is staying more and later as the time goes on but then he leaves....

cloutiedumpling · 02/06/2014 22:26

Welcome neverthebride. We're all works in progress and screw up every now and then.

Lurking and praying. Praying and lurking.

Tuo · 02/06/2014 23:53

Welcome neverthebride. Praying for you right now.

Also praying for jan, for momey and for QoF.

And thanking God that amber's hospital appointment went well.

My friend, whom I mentioned above, died this morning. Praying for her family and for all who cared about her at this time. May she rest in peace and rise in glory.

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neverthebride · 03/06/2014 10:38

Thank you so much everyone x

JugglingFromHereToThere · 03/06/2014 10:52

Good to see you this morning neverthebride - feeling a little better about things this morning I hope?

neverthebride · 03/06/2014 11:21

Yes, definitely. Question offaith was correct, it's things that other people would think we're ok but I give myself a really hard time about!.

Knowing other people were thinking of me did make me feel a bit stronger x

BlackeyedSusan · 03/06/2014 12:57

Sad tuo

NoRoomForALittleOne · 03/06/2014 13:13

Praying for Tuo and Neverthebride.

BlessedAssurance · 03/06/2014 13:33

TuoThanks such sad news. She is singing praises to the King as we speak. I am sure you and her family take comfort in knowing that she has gone to be with Her Lord and Saviour.

I have been away for a while because RL has been busy and the summer weather has me outdoors going for long walks with some other young mothers in my area. It is good. However horrible,vile,stupid,breastfeeding. I feel worse because all these mothers are whipping out their perfect breasts and feed their little ones the same way they are breathing. So easy for them while i am still wincing 9 weeks later. I would feel like a total failure if i was brandishing my bottle of formula[ which is lovely and i fed it to DD) while everyone sits contentedly looking into their little onesæ eyes. Ds fed maximum 5 minutes yesterday while the rest of the babies were latched and snoozing for an hour. The one thing i take great maximum pleasure in is Ds is a chunky monkey. He was the youngest in the group but was the chubbiest of them so i am blessed that he is getting all the food he wants and that gives me joyGrin. I have done something right even if it hurt like crazy for a while. As soon as he can eat solids i am going to stop .

I wanted to reconcile with my MIL for the sake of my kids and DH. i asked DH if i can sms her and visit her with the kids on monday seeing that she only saw DS that one time when i got back from the hospital and had the mother of arguments about names. With the hormones as they should be i realised i should have let her call ds whatever and just roll my eyes, alas it is a bit late now and i feel really bad. DH has just told me not to waste my time on because she will not see me. He said she believes i am the devil and blames me if he does not want to be dragged somewhere or refuses to meet her every time she crows. He also said she wants him to take ds to him but DH said since the baby is EBF it would be best if she came to us and i can just go for a walk while i leave them to it. She did not want so DH told her he is not going to bring ds to her and of course she thinks i refuse with my son and the circle goes on and on. I do not know what to do anymore. Prayer is difficult when there are people you have issues with. The woman hates me yet i try and keep trying. DD now knows her gm hates her mother and it pains me because i grew up with the same only for my gm to apologise to my mum for being horrible to her a few months before she died. I have never forgotten it and i did not want my DD to go throught the same yet here we are.

Sorry for long post and i am really not looking for answers, just wanted to rant.

Praying through as i read. Neverthebride, you are not allowed to hate yourself.. I remember this from my mum. Before you can love another person, you have to love yourself first. Not that selfish love the media and the world talks about but that love of accepting of one self and shortcomings and knowing that you are your best. praying for you and glad that you feel better:)

sunshinemmum · 03/06/2014 15:59

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BlackeyedSusan · 03/06/2014 17:28

when they suggest each other say that is a great idea, you two could get together...

just off to a meeting at school I am taking the children. that should be fun. pray for good behaviour!

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