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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
Kaykat · 23/05/2014 16:52

Questionoffaith it's very lovely of you to remember us all in your prayers when you are going through something so difficult. Several of us on here have experienced similar and can hopefully help you a bit. I hope you don't mind me asking but are you sure he hasn't got another woman? It's just that my h said very similar things and it was because he had met OW. Even if that's not the case and i really hope not, the things he has said must be so hurtful and I'm cross to hear that he is blaming you.

Jan yes it's exhausting sometimes I find I am shaking with fear even though he is a long way away and having difficulty sleeping. They are nice when everything is going their way then as soon as you step out of line the abusive side appears again. But I did expect it and i am prepared and ready.

Dutchoma · 23/05/2014 17:03

So what next BES?

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2014 18:13

I am researching cars Oma. it would be good if anyone had time to pray for a new (second hand) car that is really safe for the children. Officially I have to wait for the insurance to give a ruling, however, it would be helpful to have several options for what I want.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2014 18:35

it is a big decision. whatever we get will have to last many years and not cost much to run/tax/repair. it also depends on how much I get for the old one, how much we have saved and how much I am getting loaned by mum.

Dutchoma · 23/05/2014 18:44

Prayers coming your way. It seems so unfair that you hae all this extra worry when the accident was in no way your fault.

NoRoomForALittleOne · 23/05/2014 21:54

Quickly popping in to say thanks for the prayers. My earache/headache is improving and I spoke to the GP who said to just take ibuprofen for now.

QoF, I'm not sure that I have anything useful to add other than my prayers. I can remember MIL's XH being like that when he had depression and they started to separate. It turns out that he had an OW so he blamed his depression but was never willing to try and make things better. Now we know why. He also has a massive alcohol problem though so my MIL never stood a chance.

BES, prayers for car wisdom and an insurance payout that reflects the cost of replacing the car when the accident was not your fault.

PA, yay for DD1!!!!

And much love to DO. I've just packed the jumper that you knitted DD1 for DD3 to wear this weekend Grin 'tis very special!

Sorry to everyone else who I've not yet named. My head is not great and my brain is confused by new glasses so I'm struggling with the screen a bit.

We're off to stay with my parents for a few days. Should be interesting...

cheapskatemum · 23/05/2014 22:47

Hi! Just popped back here to thank any of you who prayed for DH & his DSis. They are still not talking and we heard via a very circuitous route that my niece & her husband have now also moved abroad - no change of address sent to us, DH feels that niece is manipulated by her Mum. I'm sad that we're gradually losing touch with all his immediate family (both his parents are dead, there are only the 2 siblings, she has 3 DCs, 2 of whom now live abroad). If you would continue to pray into the situation, I'd be most grateful, also for Grace and wisdom for me in my peace making efforts, thanks.

BES - my friend and fellow Christian got the car of her dreams after prayer, so have faith. I'm praying for you. QoF, also praying for you.

I also came on here in search of niminy, will go back further as have seen the post about her DS. Love & prayers.

BlackeyedSusan · 24/05/2014 00:11

my cousin likes buying cars so I think is up for car hunting. both his sons have a car and he has just upgraded so is all out of people to buy cars for/advise. Grin

I was thinking about getting a newer one soon anyway as it was getting near to the end of it's healthy life. soon though in my time scale is not necessarily what other people would call soon.

need to find the receipt for £65 worth of petrol. just filled a very empty tank that day at pump thirteen.

on the plus side I have spent £5 voucher I got that day on a lovely cool bag which will help transport the food on holiday. freezing the milk which will act as an ice pack.

Questionoffaith · 24/05/2014 07:35

PA fantastic news re dd1's job. So pleased. BES hope the insurance comes through soon and you can get your new car sorted. Room glad ears on mend. Cheapskate that situation sounds so sad, praying for a resolution.
Kay and room I have been wondering re OW possibility. Who knows at the end of the day but am leaning towards no as he is still coming round pretty much eve to see ds and have dinner and then sleeping at his dads so if there was ow he certainly isn't devoting much time there. Fil who I trust 100% to tell me the truth doesn't think there is OW and said that while he goes out for a drink some evenings he is always back to sleep and has also denied it when asked. But again, who knows!

niminypiminy · 24/05/2014 08:04

Reading through, and praying as I go for you all.

And an update on DS1. Have had several hard conversations and talked to the school. DS1 now knows that looking at porn is forbidden and that is non-negotiable, and we have got the ISP controls set, and the computer is locked away when no-one is using it (and time limits are being very strictly enforced). And we have had loan talks about sex and puberty, so that he will be getting better information from me than he could do looking at porn. So I think it is resolved, for the time being anyway. But an exhausting week -- lots going on on all fronts, none of it very easy.

CharlotteCollins · 24/05/2014 11:37

Well done, niminy. I'm not looking forward to that stage of parenting! (And porn is one of those things where I'm fairly sure XH will be telling DS very different things from me.)

QoF, praying for you. My friend almost lost her marriage a year or so ago when her DH's bipolar depression was totally out of control. He did take responsibility for his treatment in the end and things seem to be back on track now. Hmm at your H blaming you, though - very helpful!

Room, I can go one better and admit I have actually tried to shut the door on my head! Glad you're starting to feel better.

BES, praying for inspiration for your cousin, reliable cars and good insurance payouts.

GingerCurl · 24/05/2014 14:02

lurking and praying.

sunshinemmum · 24/05/2014 18:13

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PositiveAttitude · 24/05/2014 20:38

I know people have got real problems on here and I pray through each time I read, but can I ask for a dopey thing??
I am "bunny sitting" for my friends while they are away on holiday. They left this morning. I went round there to feed them and one has managed to escape out of a tiny gap. I have just spent 2 hours searching in the pouring rain for her stupid creature! no sign. We have lots of foxes around here, so I don't hold much hope for her being alive in the morning, but i am praying for a miracle!

sunshinemmum · 24/05/2014 21:25

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Questionoffaith · 24/05/2014 21:28

Escaped bunny is a nightmare and def worth prayers PA (smile).
Praying for you all. Have a peaceful evening

Questionoffaith · 24/05/2014 21:30

Or Smile even. I lost a cat I was catsitting for once and still remember the guilt. Turned up after 3 days so praying same happens

BlackeyedSusan · 24/05/2014 23:44

praying for the daft bugger rabbit to return.

PositiveAttitude · 25/05/2014 08:43

stupid daft bugger bunny rabbit has not returned. Sad I do believe one of the local foxes thought Christmas had arrived early last night. Now in a quandary as to whether to tell my friends before they return so that they can prepare the children (and the mum who will be a million times worse than the children)

Prayers for everyone on here to have a blessed Sunday and to feel God's presence in all your situations today. (but feelings are emotions and God is deeper than emotions and He is loving you even if you don't "feel" it)

Kaykat · 25/05/2014 09:26

Sounds like you've done a great job Niminy. Charlotte and anyone else worrying about impending puberty I recommend in the last couple of years of primary school taking every opportunity to talk about issues like smoking, drugs, sex, girl/boyfriends, porn, internet safety, respect for women and not following the crowd. Because at secondary school they may get exposed to these things very quickly and it's good for them to have formed strong opinions. You may see someone smoking in the street for example or something on tv which gives an opportunity to have a discussion. Charlotte my ex also tends to give a different message and was bringing my DS up to be sexist but dcs know in their hearts what is right and with time and patience I am changing DSs attitudes.

Questionoffaith you sound strong. I know the turmoil you must be going through and praying for you. He comes round to eat your dinners, has a little bit of easy time with dc then slopes off somewhere else and is well enough to go out drinking and is blaming you. That's a really poor way to treat you.

Poor bunny PA and what an awkward situation if it was me I think I would tell them before they come back so that they are prepared but towards the end of the holiday.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2014 10:10

we have started the smoking thing as ds noticed the fire sticks a while back.
puberty has been dealt with since they were very small. extended breastfeeding and single parenthood brings up plenty of opportunities. respect for women we are working on according to lundy bancroft. we talked about advertising from very young.

Kaykat · 25/05/2014 11:45

Yes Lundy Bancroft has written a wonderful book about helping children heal who have witnessed abuse. And yes you're right the younger the better, just upped my game a bit in years 5 and 6 as had heard some horror stories about secondary and they turned out to be true.

CharlotteCollins · 25/05/2014 20:47

Yes, I should root out that book for another read.

Sex talks done regularly because kids ask questions and I am unshameable! They're very anti the fire sticks because ex is a smoker. Porn and drugs are scary ones. And I never broke rules growing up - never watched a film underage, for example. Ex actively encourages breaking rules. Apparently he was telling them the other week that speeding is ok if it's just a little bit.

cheapskatemum · 25/05/2014 22:41

Thanks for your prayers, still not heard from SiL, this may be a good thing - her last email was a diatribe. My prayer life has got more exciting thanks to this thread: cars, bunny safety, positive parenting...

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2014 22:43

nice charlotte.

ds is really anti speeding. unfortunately he is also very bad at reading the speedometer and tells everybody I did 80... it is hugely embarressing.

ex also speeds but he does not tell them it is ok. he does not get to drive them much. he had to drive us to and from the hospital and he was very cautious. it felt like he was doing well over the speed limit but he was doing 5mph under.

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