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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
cloutiedumpling · 10/05/2014 14:51

PA, Best and Mome - hope you are all feeling better today. Great to hear you are home MHD.

BlackeyedSusan · 10/05/2014 21:33

right, i am logged in on h's laptop so can comment in fullsentences... well possibly if I was not so stressed and tired.

the fridge has decided to not work again. it is full of food packed round withicce blocks. I have to clear out the kitchen but i am not best able to bend and definitely not allowed to lift. itwill all be chucked in my room again.
ihave stuff out of the boot of the car in the kitchen.I had to retrieve it throughthe back seat. itis filling the garage too and needs to be sorted. some has been done already. because we needed to go to thehospital andare injured, I have an appointment to see the police on tuesday. dd has an apointemnt onthursday.

i feel i ought to be banned from all electrical goods. so far we haave computer, tv/dvd, cooker frige and car all not working.

the mobile phone has been replaced though. not that i Aam competant at using the damn thing.

jan2014 · 11/05/2014 06:04

Good morning PA sorry all the trouble you are having with your tooth - you do have wonderful friends. i hope you get it sorted soon im sure the pain is just awful
mhd hope you are getting some energy back and glad to be home
bES you been through the mil this week, i hope you are ok. so so annoying when the freezer defrosts.
dd up during the night then 5.30 start. i can't cope with her behaviour anymore i didn't even want to get up today. its so bad after she is with ex. have to bring it up in counselling.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 08:14

A lot of DCs can be unsettled after contact with the ex. It's not easy jan Sad I'm so sorry, you must be shattered.

jan2014 · 11/05/2014 09:03

God has really undertaken for me this morning its a miracle, but really i just feel like im not coping these days - i have some anxiety pills from a long time ago and thinking of starting to take them again. im sure you are shattered too. i think part of the problem is he isn't taking her long enough, and drops her off at different times every week because of his schedule, so she is confused why her time is cut so short. then the rest of the day for me her behaviour is awful - she has been pushing other children, screaming tantrums, the whole works. but for him he says she is on her best behaviour.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 09:23

Tiredness can really affect them. It could be she's shattered and out of routine as well as unsettled from contact. It's hard. He gets to play Disney dad and you do the hard stuff.

My ex only sees them for a few hours a week. When they were younger I used to struggle to keep my cool a lot of the time with them. I made a lot of mistakes (still do but less) I just keep lifting them up to God, accepting help where I can, asking God to release them from any mistakes I've made and apologising to them and explaining why I lost my cool if needed. I had a good GP who prescribed me anti depressants as well.

I read a lot of books. My favourite was Rachel Waddiloves The Toddler Book. But there's loads out there. I was always reading for ideas on ways to parent and there's good courses out there. I know I'm always saying it but it does get easier.

If we lived closer I'd help you out anytime!

Do you get tax credits over there? They help pay for my childcare as a lone parent on a low income. They don't cover it all but it helps. As I have no one to rely on, but God has blessed me with an amazing childminder. He always provides for me and he will for you if you take up more hours of paid work in due course. Tbh I think I'm a better mum going to work. I go for a rest Blush And they enjoy being with other children and burning off all that energy. I'm also lucky that they understand my sons particular needs and help him too.

I know I'm always saying it but it will get better. I can't help thinking if you could make contact hours more predictable it would help both of you and trying to get childcare away from mil and ExH as much as possible. That would help your anxiety hugely. Keep praying about it all. I'm lifting you up in prayer too, it may seem impossible but it's not and all will fall into place I'm certain x

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 09:29

I actually think he'd say she was well behaved regardless. Try to ignore anything he says.

As I prayed for you Matthew 6:25-34 came into my head.

jan2014 · 11/05/2014 15:08

thank you mome, sent you pm.

DidoTheDodo · 11/05/2014 16:26

Dear prayerful people, I've not been around for a while but I wanted to let you know that I am grateful for your prayers. My DD (who had a stillborn baby last year) is now a month away from delivering her new baby. This darling little one has been growing very well and so far it is looking good.

Any spare prayers for the last stretch would be wonderful. We are naturally anxious but this time, hopeful.

Thank you and sorry to be asking again!

BlackeyedSusan · 11/05/2014 16:51

this is being typed on the new computer. it feels all weird and I am sure I am going to make loads of mistakes until I can get used to the feel of it.

I went to church, but only in time for the end of the service and lunch. I have driven ex's car there. it is very strange. it felt like a lot of hard work and I kept losing thehand brake! and the biting point

we are back to buying food everyday.

Dutchoma · 11/05/2014 17:00

Oh, glad the new computer arrived BES. The biting point in h's car? Is that where you vent your frustration?

BlackeyedSusan · 11/05/2014 17:38
Grin
madhairday · 11/05/2014 17:42

Hello Dido - prayers for your dd and the little one and for you as well.

Bes - great re new pc!

BlackeyedSusan · 11/05/2014 17:53

now I have to sort out:
fridge freezer
oven
tv/dvd
loo
wardrobe
car

for goodness sake please pray for my radios and microwave, that they do not catch whatever is ailing all the other mechanical/electrical things.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 18:38

Oh poor you BES. Do you have a freecycle or freegle near you? I pick up all sorts of things on there that I cannot afford to replace but for free! I''ve had a beautiful dining table, a mattress, a fish tank, toys etc all for free.

Kids fighting, be back later Hmm

BlackeyedSusan · 11/05/2014 19:01

fridge freezer is still under guarantee and supposedly fixed...
car is under insurance to sort out.
wardrobe requires me to get a bit of wood and awl to make the correct sized hole to fit the rail back up.
loo requires me to saw off the old fixing with a hack saw...
oven was old and needs to be replaced anyway. I need to clean it so see if the smoke was splatter burning off or smoke from the broken fan bit. (it has two settings and I am not sure whether they both use the same source of heat. . cleaning the oven has not been on my previous lists of priorities.

tv and dvd is still a mystery.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 19:18

I can't remember when I last cleaned my oven. But with work, kids, voluntary stuff I do. I can't find the time for all sorts of stuff.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 11/05/2014 19:21

Tbh I have a man who fixes my oven for me when it goes wrong. He always makes it look easy and magics up the necessary part. I couldn't afford a new one. Not that I can afford his fee either but God usually makes it work somehow.

BlackeyedSusan · 11/05/2014 21:41

oh dear. ex has been given notice on his shared house. he is shell shocked. the children will be upset too as they love going to play in the garden.

Dutchoma · 11/05/2014 22:05

That is really difficult BES. As if life was not difficult enough already. Praying he will be able to find something else.

BlackeyedSusan · 12/05/2014 00:01

forgot to mention that mums blood pressure went up to over 200 as well and unsurprisingly she was quite poorly.

BlackeyedSusan · 12/05/2014 07:38

very nervous about driving in rush hour traffic.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 12/05/2014 10:45

Hope the drive was ok BES. It's hard driving after a crash.

Can you pray for my DCs? Their Dad cannot come after school now. They were so looking forward to it and will now cry on collection Sad Feeling a bit cross as he should've given me more warning. Grrrrr. They haven't seen him for 8 days now Sad

Questionoffaith · 12/05/2014 11:58

praying for your dcs, and for you. Not an easy situation. And for your Mum BES. And your DD Dido.
Yesterday was a good day. Went to mass for the first time in years, the church was lovely, the priest was fantastic (and delivered a little aside that was so specific to my situation I could only take it as being meant for me). DS enjoyed it and met up with some school friends there and my lovely friend who took me introduced me to her friends. Felt very welcome, very emotional and very at home and will definitely be returning. Then had awful nights sleep and woke up feeling very sad and anxious but instead of reading the papers as I normally do over breakfast I read some scripture and am gradually feeling better. I feel weird reading that back as is "not me" but I feel very strongly that the only way forward is for me to stop paying lip service to my faith and actually start making it part of my day to day life. I am a bit of a crappy Christian....
Hope all the rest of you are doing OK and I hope you dont mind me sticking around.

Dutchoma · 12/05/2014 13:10

Don't worry QoF, there's not one Christian in the whole world of Christendom that's not 'crappy'. We are all totally dependent on the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. You will find untold blessing if you manage to draw near to that grace, there is no better place to be.