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A new Christian prayer thread, just in time for Easter!

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Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:44

Welcome to our new prayer thread... just in time for Holy Week and Easter.

This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad and for her aunt - this has been a very tough time for the family... may spring bring them happier times;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school, and for her to feel welcomed, accepted and supported at her church;

... BlessedAssurance, for breast-feeding to settle down for her following the birth of her baby son, for her relationship with her extended family (and in particular her MIL and her bonkers baby-naming ideas ), and for her parents who are far away;

... CharlotteCollins, for her new life as a single mum - may she be happy and fulfilled and supported in it;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for support for her to do all the things she'd like to be able to do, for her DC, for difficult relationships at work, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she grieves for Bob, that she may find peace of mind, love and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, for her relationship with her DH, for the final 'tweaks' to her thesis, and for friendship for her DS;

... ALittleFaith, for baby Faithlet as she approaches her first birthday, for Faith's work to bring her joy and not exhaustion, and for her to find happiness and fulfilment in her church;

... jan2014 for her to understand what the right thing to do is vis-a-vis her relationship with her DH, and for her to have the courage to do what needs to be done, and to find support in doing it; also for her new church to be a place where she finds love and support and welcome;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for her sister and her family as they grieve the loss of Juggling's nephew;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and continuing to pray for her situation, that she receive the moral and practical support she needs for herself and her DS

... MadHairDay, for her health to improve this spring and for her to stay out of hospital, and for health, friendship, and freedom from bullying for MHD's DD;

... PandaG, as she and her family grieve the loss of her mum; and for

... PositiveAttitude, praying for the right outcome for PA's DH as he decides between a career opportunity at home and a return to Cambodia; also praying for PA's parents health, for her DD3 and DGS as they move into their own home, and for her other three DDs and one DS in their various situations; and finally praying for peace for PA herself and - whatever happens work-wise in the UK and/or abroad - for God to provide for her and her family.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: boxofdelights, bountyicecream Bluetinkerbell, CheerfulYank, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger, JakeBullet, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, niminypiminy, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, revivingshower, RoomForALittleOne, saintsalive, SchrodingersFerret, SEStheBrave, Soozi, SunshinemMum, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, weegiemum, youretoastmildred, ZingSweetApple, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord, in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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jan2014 · 06/05/2014 12:32

Juggling im sorry you are struggling so much. i agree with Zing that having a chat about counselling sounds like a great idea, you are going through so much at the minute and it sounds so hard that your husband isn't supporting you through it but making it harder instead. the housework is hardly going to be on your mind at the minute, and if its that much on his mind then why doesn't he do it!?

well dh never did come to pick up dd this morning, had to drop her at a friends house because 'his alarm didn't go off'. dd was very upset at being left at my friends without me, and i was in a stress. not great start to the day.

amberlight · 06/05/2014 13:01

Prayers aplenty for each of you...

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 13:03

juggling

do you think he would respond better if you wrote him a letter?
he can read it in his own time, no conflict, just you being heard - in a different way.

I'm an angry person too. Sometimes my own emotions are more than enough and I can't handle anyone else's.
Again, not defending him, but if I'm similar to him, perhaps the way I feel or behave can be an insight to why he does things?

if you think that's not a helpful approach just say it.

I'm really sorry you are struggling so much. you definitely need some sort of RL emotional & practical support.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 13:19

I think I will see my GP and talk about my feelings and bereavement and the possibility of either counselling and/or a prescription for something.

Thinking counselling could be good actually - as you can see I like to talk!

Have also just phoned my DSis and offered to go and stay over her birthday to give her some support. She's thinking about it, depending a bit on what her elder dd is doing.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 13:23

Interesting idea about giving DH something to read Zing but I don't know - I think DH might find that all a bit serious that's the problem?

Badvoc · 06/05/2014 13:38

Hi all.
Sorry I haven't been around for a while, things been a little busy - new kitchen, dh away and ds2 still not happy :(
Anyway, the sun is shining and I am not doing anymore ironing today :)
I have been thinking of you all, and hope you are all doing ok.
It's now 9 months since dad died...seems unreal still.
We interred my aunts ashes last week. Was a very sad day. Again.
I am so tired of feeling scared.
That's the thing I think.
I just feel scared all the time now.

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 13:46

Juggling

that is the point. he needs to realize it IS serious.
if you were already having a hard time before, now I can see how it seems impossible to cope.
It's simple: you need help
and he needs to realise that.
he needs to support you so that you can start coping better.
you are also helping your sister, being strong for her - how are your batteries will get recharged if you don't have a rest physically, mentally and emotionally?

Write down how you feel. and how you think he could help you.
he needs to know

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 13:47

Badvoc

I remember when he died. it's so hard.
what is it that you are scared of?

(hugs)

Badvoc · 06/05/2014 14:02

Juggling...my sister is having counselling and my mum is on the wait list.
Work a try for you I think. I am so sorry your dh is being less than supportive x
Zing...everything! Making decisions, not making them, my health, the kids health, dh travelling away with work, mum, my sister, my brother, the future....just...everything :(
Am dreading next month - father day, dads b day, then July and the anniversary of his death.
People think I am so strong.
I put on a pretty good show :(

madhairday · 06/05/2014 14:22

Badvoc you don't always have to be the strong one. It's ok to be real if you need to. I'm so sorry things are so tough for you :(

Juggling - saying a prayer for you and dh.

Praying also for Jan, bes, Kaykat and Mome today.

And thanks so much to oma for this beautiful card I just received! Doctor has told me I can go home on thursday :)

JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 14:26

Sounds like we feel some similar things there Badvoc what with all that worrying about others in the family. My dh also travels away with work occasionally, and has a trip coming up fairly soon. I do miss him when he's away which can be hard too.

Anniversary's and special days can be a very mixed blessing for people can't they? As I mentioned my DSis has her birthday coming up soon - very hard, or impossible?, for any of us to make that a happy day for her this year. But we might be able to make it slightly better with some thoughtfulness I guess.

Badvoc · 06/05/2014 14:41

Dh went away on Easter Sunday (great timing eh?) for 12 days to the other side of the world :(
Whilst he was away we had a new kitchen fitted - this did not go as planned - does it ever!?
Added to that ds2 is having huge separation anxiety issues wrt me so we are looking into some counselling for him.
Since he got back all we have done is bicker.
Must go off to do the school run....

JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 15:17

Hmm, a hard day for many.
Do we need one of Tuo's lovely prayers? ....

Or anyone else who feels inspired Smile

jan2014 · 06/05/2014 16:20

so sorry for all who are struggling. i wish we were all together right now and could just make everything right for each other. a little escapism. if you were all here i would give you all some lovely coffee & cake and we would all pray for each other and sing and Gods presence would come and we would be comforted. just a thought.

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 16:25

all I can think of is the "Footsteps" story.

Badvoc

I'm so sorrySad
anniversaries are awful, and the first anniversary of everything is the hardest - but the run up to them can be unbearable.
I hope it helps that you are not alone.

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 16:26

jan

I was thinking something similar.
And group hug

JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 17:04

The Brew and Cake in good company sounds very good jan
Thanks for that thought x
And the group hug too Zing Thanks

ZingWatermelon · 06/05/2014 17:26

I've felt really sick all day so today is a complete write off.
30 weeks pg and MS is still lurking.
it's bringing me down.Sad

And it's just so frustrating as I have tons to do before moving (on 23rd)

Needless to say kids are having cereal for dinner!

Kaykat · 06/05/2014 17:42

Sorry to hear about all your struggles and husbands being a bit useless in varying degrees. Joining the lovely virtual meeting at Jan's house. Yesterday I looked out of the window and saw my neighbours returning from a weekend away and noticed that the husband unpacked the car entirely on his own. Suddenly I remembered all the trips we had away and not once did my husband lift a finger to help pack or unpack the car, I did everything. I did a little dance around my kitchen at the joy of being single. Over the weekend I have also managed to make an important decision over legal matters. Thanks all for your prayers.

Dutchoma · 06/05/2014 17:46

I'll come to your house Jan for tea and cake.

Tuo · 06/05/2014 18:15
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JugglingFromHereToThere · 06/05/2014 18:16

Glad to hear you should be going home on Thursday mhd - hope you're feeling a bit better for it all?
All is relatively calm once again here - nice to have everyone home from their various outings.
Now just need to rustle something up for supper ....

madhairday · 06/05/2014 18:24

Loving our little virtual tea party here. We need a [guitar] emoticon to sing along too ?

Kaykat :( that's so very sad. What a waste of space. So pleased you're feeling the joy at being single. I feel so angry at all these excuses of men treating my beautiful friends so badly. :( Have some Cake and we can all join together across the miles with tuos prayer.

Juggling - thank you. I do feel an awful lot better.nwhen I get out I'll be catching up on sleep for a while!

Badvoc · 06/05/2014 18:26

Did someone mention Cake ?
:)

Dutchoma · 06/05/2014 19:30

Tea or coffee, Badvoc?