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A new Christian prayer thread for 2014

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Tuo · 02/01/2014 00:58

Welcome to our new prayer thread for 2014. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad; prayers too for her aunt who is seriously ill; and prayers for a good recovery from her gallstones operation;

... BananasForTed, praying for her mental health and for her difficult work situation, and also praying that she was able to go back to her church and that she found support there;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... BlessedAssurance, when she feels challenged because of her faith at her place of work; also for her pregnancy and for her eye problems;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to find somewhere good to live and a job;

... bountyicecream, thanking God for her renewed happiness after leaving a very difficult and abusive relationship, and praying that she will continue to grow in happiness and strength in the future;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks for her new home and new job;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, thanking God that an MRI has shown her brain to be normal, and for the continued progress of her niece, little Grace, born prematurely;

... DutchOma and Bob, for Bob's health to be as stable as possible and for him to receive good care in the hospice; also praying for him to see some glimpses of light in what is, admittedly, a very difficult situation, so that his outlook may be less 'catastrophic'; and praying for Oma that she may find rest and peace of mind and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, giving thanks for the successful completion of her thesis and praying for her viva to go well; also for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaithBaby, for all bugs to leave to Faith household; also for her neighbour who has cancer and for his family;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and praying for her DS to cope well with his new situation and not allow his dad to influence him in a negative way; also praying that she will find a welcoming church community in her new place;

... MadHairDay, thanking God for a Christmas spent at home with her family, and praying for continued health in 2014; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, for her relationship with her DS and for support for them to understand his anger and frustration and find ways to avoid it if possible;

... niminypiminy, for happiness in her new home;

... octopusinastringbag, thinking of her as she feels drawn to explore faith in more depth;

... PandaG, for her mum's health;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular, at this time, for DD3, praying for a happy end to her pregnancy with no complications; also praying for PA's parents’ health, for her DD1's finances, for her DS's anxiety, and for PA as she awaits the outcome of a job application and misses her DH and DD4;

... revivingshower, praying for her back pain to ease and thanking God for her family who've been supporting her during this tough time;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her DD3 to stay well and to sleep well too, so that Room can get enough rest;

... RunRunRuby, thanking God that she has come to our thread and praying that her faith may be strengthened;

... SESthebrave, for all that she has to juggle in her life, with work and DC;

... SunshinemMum, praying for her and her family as they look for a new spiritual home after leaving their previous church; may they find the place that is right for them, and may it welcome them with open arms;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for a more peaceful time now to recover from the hecticness that is Christmas, and for her academic work;

... weegiemum, giving thanks for her own better health, but praying for her stepmum and for Kat, who are both seriously unwell and for all in the family affected by their illnesses;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: Bluetinkerbell, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger and her family, JakeBullet, jan and her DD, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, Soozi, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

May God bless us all in 2014.

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PositiveAttitude · 08/04/2014 08:41

Hi Ladies.

Mome I have been reading the many FB messages about your pastor. He truly was a special man.

DD3 is now settled in her new home. My home is now more peaceful! Wink

jan2014 · 08/04/2014 18:49

last 2 days have been so stressful. today i burnt out and had to go to bed, just exhausted!

madhairday · 08/04/2014 19:01

Praying for the family of your pastor, Mome. I saw some things about him on fb too. He sounded wonderful.

Thanks
JugglingFromHereToThere · 08/04/2014 19:25

I've had a very quiet day today too Jan - sometimes we just need a rest?

Have just had a nice walk around our garden though with dd, appreciating the first apple blossom out on one of our many apple trees.

Also have had some good talks with my sister on the phone, and had a good day with my DFather and DD in London yesterday. We visited the special treasures room in the British Library (free BTW) where you can see beautiful illuminated manuscripts and the first bibles written in English, as well as original scores of Mozart and Beethoven, early Shakespeare, and even the first draft of a Beatles song written on the back of an envelope IIRC.
Well worth a visit (on the Euston Road between Euston station and King's Cross)

My sister took her little girl swimming today with her Nana. Older DNeice has gone back to college where I hope she will be with many good friends.
So thanks for your thoughts and prayers for all the family x

Thinking of all of you as I read through, and loving Tuo's thoughtful prayers especially those from the Northumbria Community - I've been very moved by their beautiful simplicity.

ALittleFaith · 08/04/2014 22:29

Hello all.

I completely fell off the thread. Need to read back. Mome I'm sorry to hear about your pastor. Praying for all those who knew and loved him to have comfort at this time. Thanks

Tuo · 08/04/2014 23:56

Hello. Well, yesterday I got the visual migraine; today I got the headache. Ouch! Starting to feel normal again now, thankfully. Prayers of thanks to colleagues who looked after me a bit today and sent me home early!

Praying for Faith - lovely to see you. Tell us how Faithlet is getting on these days? And how is your work? Are you staying well? And are you feeling happier at your church? Thinking of you lots...

Praying too for energy for Jan, health for MHD, and peace for BES.

More words of comfort from the Northumbria Community today, for those named, and for us all, thanking God that, when we are weary or confused or weak, he is strong and wise and powerful:

"Do you not know? Have you not heard? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak." (Isaiah 40: 28-29)

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ALittleFaith · 09/04/2014 08:14

Hi Tuo. Migraines are the pits, glad you're on the mend!

Can you believe Faithlet is one on Monday?! She is a delight. Into everything, never stops but generally a happy little soul. Having gone back to work in January, we found the hours/shifts I'd chosen rather gruelling. (Working 2 shifts every weekend). I've just dropped from 30 hours (2 long shifts and one short) to 24 hours (2 long) because DH got promoted!

Church is still difficult, not helped by my shifts. I was working Saturday night so couldn't go one morning a fortnight and was shattered after working Saturday the following week. With my new shifts I should be able to go more often. I've got a nice friendship with one woman with a baby the same age as Faithlet. I feel like I have tried hard with another woman who isn't bothered so I'm not going to push it!

PositiveAttitude · 09/04/2014 09:48

Faithlet is 1!!! Shock Sounds like good news about the reduced hours, so hope that all sorts out well.

Prayers for all of you who are struggling with health, partners, babies and life right now!

Grrrrr!! Just as I thought we had the next 8 months of life sorted something has been thrown into the mix and put everything into question again!! In November DH saw a job advertised here and we both said it was his dream job, but the timing was not quite right and wouldn't it have been fantastic if it had been advertised.......errrr.....about now!! Well, that same job has now been advertised again. Just as we had come to terms with DH going back to Cambodia for the Autumn. I hate uncertainty!!! We do both want to just do what God wants us to do, but I do wish it was a little clearer at times!! Would DH be wrong to apply? Would it mean that we are doubting his calling to Cambodia? I think he should apply and just give it to God......he will either get it or he won't. But if we do that I know we will have a few months of uncertainty and not knowing whether we will be together or 7,500 miles apart, I wont know whether I need to sort finances until the end of the year, or not. My mind is buzzing!! I am concerned that I will get excited about the thought of DH being back here again......then he might not be and i will have that struggle again, just as I have come to terms with all that. grrrrr!!! Sometimes I would just like a simple life with a DH doing a 9 - 5 job and it all mapped out in front of me. Well, maybe not, that is not quite me, actually! Smile

jan2014 · 09/04/2014 10:36

faith so hard to believe your wee one is one now, how time flies and glad to hear shes doing so well. friendships have to work both ways, no point you making the effort all the time, think youre doing the right thing saving your energy for those who also treat you as you want to be treated!

PA wow a lot going on for you... i think your dh is doing the right thing applying. its so frustrating for us the way God works but i think he delights in the uncertainty, cos if everything was laid out for us, how would we learn to trust him and how would we live a life of faith. He obviously trusts you and your husband with this kind of uncertainty, or he wouldn't throw it at you... He trusts you to trust him that he sees the end from the beginning. i kinda understand though, ive wanted closure for a long time with dh, and in the meantime have to find peace with not knowing whats going to happen and trusting, which is hard, but there is beauty to be found in the trusting. sorry for rambling im not making much sense as my brain feels quite fried at the minute, have class later and think im just going to be sitting in a daze

PositiveAttitude · 09/04/2014 12:59

Jan you make perfect sense, thank you. Hope the class goes well.

madhairday · 09/04/2014 13:26

I agree totally with Jan, PA - I think it's fine for him to apply - it's testing the waters so to speak, and leaving it in God's hands, rather than doubting the calling. Callings are often for a season, and it might be that another season is coming up - or it might not be, but either way, if you are dedicating it to God, I can't see the harm in pushing the door a little.

Grin

Praying for you all.

BlackeyedSusan · 09/04/2014 14:49

ha ha..mhd.

I shall try... it's ok to apply. he might not get it. God can decide.

I am off to get the boy in a mo. I have done some tidying, at last.. mainly the washing up and washing sort but it all helps at least to stop things getting worse.

madhairday · 09/04/2014 16:12

Please can you pray for DD. She's come home from school in an awful state, the bullies at it again, so called friends turing on her, she feels ostracised at every level and like 'everyone hates her'. I wish I could do it for her, I really do. Or home school her. I could if I didn't have this fucking disease. Sorry. just so upset for her.

Why are kids so nasty to anyone different? Thankfully she has access to a great SN unit where they all accept each other. she feels safe there.

A girl shouldn't have to put up with comments like 'everyone hates you' 'why are you alive' 'you are so wierd' 'run away you'll get infected' etc etc - should she? what should the school be doing to safeguard her?

She has been happier in high school but it still sucks. She has had this all her life and I am fed up of it. So Angry with these vile little shits who make her life a misery. she is so very lovely and would never hurt anyone. she just had the gall to have dyspraxia and psoriasis.

:(

madhairday · 09/04/2014 16:42
Blush

comes of posting in the moment.

Lord, please help me and dd show grace and forgiveness, but also pursue justice.

This world is so broken, isn't it. :(

saintsalive · 09/04/2014 16:48
Sad [I pop on here v occasionally and just saw this]

"They know not what they do" may cover this situation in the spiritual sense?

I dont know your dd's background.
Is there anything practically that should be done?

saintsalive · 09/04/2014 16:53

The school should have policies for this type of thing. Have you spoken to them before? And you can ask to read the policy if it is not on their website.

Are there perhaps better schools for her?
Or does she like it there generally?
Is there someone who could watch out for her? Like a buddy?

Start a thread on chat? Or on Teenagers? They seem clued up on there.

JugglingFromHereToThere · 09/04/2014 17:13

Hi mhd I'm so sorry for what your dd is going through with this Sad

At least she has friends and support amongst one group of peers? That will be such a help and support to her.

Don't be embarrassed about the way you put things, it's no worse than in the psalms which talk quite freely about being rescued from our enemies IIRC

And I've heard some say that God can take it!

Anyway as you know I've posted somewhat in anger on other threads.
I actually really like where you say
"This world is so broken, isn't it?"
That's just how I've been feeling recently

Praying that it will be mended a little (enough, or more than enough) for you and your dd x

BlackeyedSusan · 09/04/2014 18:04

((hugs)) mhd.

what to do? email school with names and examples of what has been said. ask how they are going to safeguard your daughter.
ask for a copy of the bullying policy. state when you would like a reply (realistically)

madhairday · 09/04/2014 18:29

Thankyou so much.

I have emailed the school with specifics. They are usually good at getting back to me.

saints welcome :) Thanks for your thoughts. She is generally happy at this school and they are good with her. I am very impressed by the SENCO there and the sn dept in general. I know they will do their best to sort this latest out.

juggling yes. You must be feeling so like that right now about the world being so broken. It is, isn't it. That's where I believe Jesus came in, to put it right on course again, in the end. The waiting time in between is the hard thing....thanks for your thoughts. I really appreciate them :)

BES I think they will answer quickly, they usually do. would be interesting to see the anti bullying policy. They have stepped in quickly before and resolved situations well. But she still feels alone, especially in lessons.

She's happy though now. She's a very positive girl. She bounces back quickly. Thankfully she has a couple of very close best friends from other schools who she can talk to, one she sees every week (the other too far away) so that helps her so much. I tell her this is all making her stronger and more compassionate. I am so proud of her. She says she feels like she is waiting for them all to grow up and understand about people's feelings and that difference isn't a bad thing.

saintsalive · 09/04/2014 19:32

Gosh. She sounds lovely and insightful Smile

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 09/04/2014 20:41

Oh MHD Sad praying. It's ok to post in the heat of the moment ((hugs))

PA wise words from others. Def push the door.

This thread is almost full! Hope TUO makes a new one soon, otherwise we'll have to get it started and she can add the round up later. I wouldn't want anyone to be without support if needed. Lots to pray for.

Today was a mixed bag here. Early night for me I think. Hormones on the rampage again and a clash at work today The washing up can wait. It usually does Grin

jan2014 · 09/04/2014 21:42

very sad to read about your poor dd. she does sound so mature and compassionate, yet noone should have to put up with this. i hope she is ok.

BlessedAssurance · 09/04/2014 22:19

mhd so sad to hear that your dd is going through all that. That is just horrible but she sounds lovely.
mome sorry about your pastor.

I would love to write more but i can not function right now. Breastfeeding has been hell. That is the only way i can describe it. I thought because it is no 2 then would be easier, nope. I am hurting everywhere. My boobs are cracked,bloody and sore. I start getting sick when i hear my ds cry because that means he has to feed. I am expressing but it does not help, the milk just keeps filling up. The baby has a perfect latch, just my nipples are way too big for him. I am in so much pain and a HV is coming friday so she might help but been there befire so am not raising my hopes up. The worst is after every feed i am now getting these headaches and serious neck pain. Did i draw the shortest straw in the breasfeeding department or what? There is no talk of quitting. The idea of those boobs becoming engorged scares me more so i am really stuck. I am not enjoying it at all.

On top of that MIL came to us the day i came out of hospital with her i want to call my grandchild Boa nonsense. I told her i was not happy with that NN to which she replied she didn't care about my feelings or my thoughts. Said she was the grandmother and it was her right to call her GS whatever she saw fit. Well i am not proud of it but after 20hrs in labour, C Section, boobs that were bloody and cracking,migrane you name it, i told her i was the mother and she would have to call my son by his two names. Jonathan Elias could she choose from. Then the argument got heated because she insisted and i did the same. Finally i lost it and told her to leave. Sad but we have gone NC for now. So my cup is running over right now with issues and i just wish my mother was here. I need my mummy and we can not afford to bring her to Europe just at this moment. I really really wish my mum was hereSad. Sorry for the long rant. I keep chanting this too shall pass,because it will. It hurts though.

Tuo · 09/04/2014 23:54

Ooh! Don't think I've ever been the 1000th poster before!

We have a new thread.

I want to end this one with a prayer of thanksgiving for every poster on this thread, whether they have posted every day or only once. I feel that this is a real community and a real resource, in good times and bad, whether our problems are trivial or huge, and at those times when we just need somewhere to go to say 'Here I am' to God. I thank God for bringing every one of you into my life - my life is better for it.

See you all on the new thread... Thanks Thanks Thanks

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