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A new Christian prayer thread for 2014

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Tuo · 02/01/2014 00:58

Welcome to our new prayer thread for 2014. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve for her dad; prayers too for her aunt who is seriously ill; and prayers for a good recovery from her gallstones operation;

... BananasForTed, praying for her mental health and for her difficult work situation, and also praying that she was able to go back to her church and that she found support there;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... BlessedAssurance, when she feels challenged because of her faith at her place of work; also for her pregnancy and for her eye problems;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to find somewhere good to live and a job;

... bountyicecream, thanking God for her renewed happiness after leaving a very difficult and abusive relationship, and praying that she will continue to grow in happiness and strength in the future;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks for her new home and new job;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, thanking God that an MRI has shown her brain to be normal, and for the continued progress of her niece, little Grace, born prematurely;

... DutchOma and Bob, for Bob's health to be as stable as possible and for him to receive good care in the hospice; also praying for him to see some glimpses of light in what is, admittedly, a very difficult situation, so that his outlook may be less 'catastrophic'; and praying for Oma that she may find rest and peace of mind and support at this time;

... Gingercurl, giving thanks for the successful completion of her thesis and praying for her viva to go well; also for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaithBaby, for all bugs to leave to Faith household; also for her neighbour who has cancer and for his family;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her;

... Kaykat, giving thanks that she is now settled and happy in her new home with her DS, and praying for her DS to cope well with his new situation and not allow his dad to influence him in a negative way; also praying that she will find a welcoming church community in her new place;

... MadHairDay, thanking God for a Christmas spent at home with her family, and praying for continued health in 2014; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... NeverKnowinglyUnderstood, for her relationship with her DS and for support for them to understand his anger and frustration and find ways to avoid it if possible;

... niminypiminy, for happiness in her new home;

... octopusinastringbag, thinking of her as she feels drawn to explore faith in more depth;

... PandaG, for her mum's health;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular, at this time, for DD3, praying for a happy end to her pregnancy with no complications; also praying for PA's parents’ health, for her DD1's finances, for her DS's anxiety, and for PA as she awaits the outcome of a job application and misses her DH and DD4;

... revivingshower, praying for her back pain to ease and thanking God for her family who've been supporting her during this tough time;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her DD3 to stay well and to sleep well too, so that Room can get enough rest;

... RunRunRuby, thanking God that she has come to our thread and praying that her faith may be strengthened;

... SESthebrave, for all that she has to juggle in her life, with work and DC;

... SunshinemMum, praying for her and her family as they look for a new spiritual home after leaving their previous church; may they find the place that is right for them, and may it welcome them with open arms;

... thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for a more peaceful time now to recover from the hecticness that is Christmas, and for her academic work;

... weegiemum, giving thanks for her own better health, but praying for her stepmum and for Kat, who are both seriously unwell and for all in the family affected by their illnesses;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors, and those we haven't seen for a while, including: Bluetinkerbell, cloutiedumpling, EasyCompadre, FairPhyllis, fluffieduckie, FriendOfDorothy, GoodbyeRubyTuesday, harbinger and her family, JakeBullet, jan and her DD, ktef, LollipopViolet, MaryBS, notquiteagrownup, PloddingDaily, Soozi, thehorridestmumintheworld, trish5000, youretoastmildred, and zulubump, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

May God bless us all in 2014.

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madhairday · 22/03/2014 14:22

Oooh we can post pics here now!!

May you all know hope here today...

A new Christian prayer thread for 2014
BlessedAssurance · 22/03/2014 15:32

mome a few post upthread i wrote about the same thing you are going through and of course i would never compare your situation with mine, but just that i know and undrestand a bit about what you are going through wrt family. Praying for you.

Mhd so sorry you are still being troubled by the infection. Praying for a full recovery.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 00:29

oh dear. dd howled and not faired so much I had to stop the car to calm her down. guess she did want to stay then. difficult though. she had to eat her tea there to get points for her team even though she did not want it. she was also nearly given her allergen, as in it was on her plate and she queried what the food was. she is going to play with someone tomorrow while I take ds to a party so I would have hardly seen her all weekend. we were out on friday night too. this parenting lark is tough.

I am worried about her. I offered the children a choice of red sauce (veggies and tomatoes) or fish fingers for tea told them they could have either. ds chose first. dd was convinced that she would not be able to have her different choice even though i had offered her it. she seems to believe she never gets what she wants. she capitulates to ds so often. I have to stop her doing it sometimes but she is very sensitive to his wails.

I am poorly with cough/cold so am feeling a bit grim and less able to cope with the upsets. it is all such an effort when one is feeling under the weather.

ds has been pretty good. I think he is sickening for something though. we did have to play 20 questions at bedtime though as he was grabbing the door on the way out and trying to communicate something with grunts. despite having fallen asleep on the sofa he rememebred that he had not had his drink... then 20 questions ot find the right cup/drink/straw.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 00:31

mome that is really tough. some people do not get how hard it is sometimes. and I think I have it easy compared to you. hoping that your sil gets a dose of realisation.

Tuo · 23/03/2014 03:04

Eek! Look at the time! Have been at a friend's house celebrating another friend's birthday. Prayed for you all on the way home, but don't want to break my resolution to post here every day since I've already broken all my others, so will simply offer up here a short but heartfelt prayer of thanks for friends, real and virtual.

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 23/03/2014 07:52

Ahhh BES I reckon us lone parents all have it tough in different ways. You have your Mum to care for which is very hard when balancing everything else in your life x

Well God came up trumps and someone offered to pay for babysitting (no prompting from me) and I got given a lift. I felt a little awkward when I got there but tried to rise above and forgive her. I knew some of the other people there and it was nice to see them all. But I will try and avoid family for awhile again now. They do have such a knack for hurting me, as I think most of you know, I rarely see my Dad as he is particularly nasty to me. I try and protect myself by avoiding family gatherings as something always happens at them.

Lots to do today. Still feeling run down and tired, I'm going to try and get an early night tonight.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 23/03/2014 07:53

Blessed thanks for your kind words by the way. Sorry forgot to mention that.

madhairday · 23/03/2014 10:38

That's good mome praying for a good day today.

Yet another morning with no church for me, haven't been since January, but our fledgling church here are coming round this afternoon to do a service and communion with me, complete with children rushing around everywhere no doubt :) Which is lovely as have felt so out of the loop when it comes to corporate worship lately.

Hope you all have a blessed and lovely Sunday. BES praying for strength for you and health for you and the dc. It must be so very hard sometimes.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 13:04

yes mhd... and when I am whinging about colds I do think of you and how you put up with so much. (strops allowed here) I think we all get strenght from each other.

to add to the joy I have an annoying runny eye. humph. ex is visiting so he may have to drive the children to their things today. (one party, one play date)

oh and I am feeling a bit better about making parenting decisions and dd howling over not staying overnight.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 13:32

aggghh. off to drop dd off at a friends and go to taake ds to a party. eek.

BlessedAssurance · 23/03/2014 14:52

OhBes. Don't you have a lot on your plate? It must be difficult juggling it all but God is with you. When during those times i want to mourn i check myself and move on because i think about what you have to go through and all the challenges you face as a single mom and that brings me back to mother earth. You too mome.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 23/03/2014 16:21

Blogging about Mother's Day right now as a lone parent. It was meant to be short but it's got rather long now. Oops

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 19:27

can you send me a link mome?

home. had to get the "satnav" to drive as the paracetamol wore off and I got a runny eye. probably as well that I could not see much. It has been a long tiome since I have been in the passenger seat and it looked like we were going to hit the kerb all the time.

ds liked the party. it was hard work though. he was no worse behaved that quite a few of the others. another child was hitting one of the big sisters.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/03/2014 19:29

(yes that was ex being helpful by the way)

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 23/03/2014 21:31

Shall I pm you on here?

Tuo · 23/03/2014 22:33

As I'm on here uncharacteristically early tonight, I shall attempt a bit of a round-up. Apologies to anyone I forget - please just add to this list.

We pray, then, for...

... amberlight, praying for her work and for her health and that of her family;
... Badvoc, as she grieves for her dad and for her aunt, for her and for her whole family to feel God near to them at this difficult time;
... BlackEyedSusan, for her cold to feel better soon, for her mum's health, and for the many things she juggles on a daily basis; may she find peace of mind and the ability to rest occasionally, and may she receive support when she needs it most;
... BlessedAssurance, for her relationship with her siblings, for her dad's health, and for a safe conclusion to her pregnancy;
... CharlotteCollins , for an easier relationship with her ex and for happiness for her in her new life;
... Dontsteponthemomeraths, for her to find support when she needs it, for the many things she has to juggle in her life as a single parent, for her work for her church, and for difficult family relationships;
... DutchOma, for her to be surrounded by love and to know peace as she grieves for Bob;
... Gingercurl, for the marriage course which she has undertaken with her DH and for her PhD viva on Tuesday!
... Juggling, for her sister and her whole family following the tragic death of Juggling's nephew
... Kaykat, praying that her ex would recognise his obligations towards his son, and adding prayers for happiness for Kay and for her DS;
... MadHairDay, praying for better health following what sounds like a really nasty infection;
... Muser, for her friend's baby who is desperately ill;
... PandaG, as she grieves for her mum and tries to support her dad;
... PositiveAttitude, for her DH's work in Cambodia to find the financial support that it needs to continue, for PA's DS as he makes decisions about his future, for her DD3 to stay strong and healthy as she looks after her new baby, for PA's parents, and for the whole family;
... tunnocksteacake, for her DH, who has brain cancer, and for the whole family;
... ZingSweetCoconut, thanking God for her house sale and praying for the actual move and for her pregnancy.

From the Northumbria compline for tonight:

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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ZingSweetCoconut · 24/03/2014 09:16

Thanks for lovely prayer log Tuo

DH is away and although back late tonight I find it hard to cope when he is away.
I had a panic attack this morning, then it made me sick.
I feel anxious, stressed, frustrated, impatient and furious all at the same time (or alternating).

I'm supposed to get the shopping done but it seems like such a task right now.
to illustrate my state of mind further I took the kids to school in my pyjamas. I just couldn't get dressed.

I feel like crap

Dutchoma · 24/03/2014 09:27

Oh Zing. I hope your day gets better from here on. If your pyamas are anything like mine they could easily be mistaken for a track suit. But maybe best get dressed before you go shopping. How long now before the baby?

BlackeyedSusan · 24/03/2014 10:35

at least you go them to school. think of that as a positive.

I am huffing and puffing and crying in one eye, and about to go to bed.

GingerCurl · 24/03/2014 11:50

We went to the 2nd session on the Marriage Course last night. I left feeling angry and deflated after being told that I annoy DH because I repeat myself in conversations with him. I didn't get a chance to point out that he had just effectively put a muzzle on me because it was time to move on to the next section of the session. In any case, now I don't just have to worry about communicating honestly, I also have to think about not repeating myself in case it annoys him. But somehow DH manages to think everything is just peachy. I feel angry and sad and see no point in trying to bring issues that I feel we have to light as all that will happen is that somehow it will turn out to be me who has got it wrong (again) and I don't need to have my failures hammered in to me even if it really is all down to me because that doesn't really solve anything or move us forward.

It is impossible to have a discussion with someone who is convinced that they are right by default and consequently you are always wrong. Even when he says that he's learned to think a la Dr Phil that being right is not as important as being happy, he admits that he still knows that he really is right, but chooses not to push it because it will just cause an argument. If you are not willing to at least momentarily let go of your notions to see things from another person's perspective, how can you ever expect that person to feel heard or that their views are respected?

The viva is tomorrow afternoon. I should be concentrating on that but have my mind filled with this other stuff.

madhairday · 24/03/2014 12:45

Oh Gingercurl it's no wonder you are preoccupied. Has he always been like this - refusing to listen, cutting you off? I hope the Marriage Course gives more time to think about these things next time - dh and I did it years back, is it the Alpha one with Nicky and Sila Lee? We are doing the parenting teenagers course by the same couple at the moment, very helpful but sometimes it feels like ti doesn't leave enough time for the deeper discussion. I will pray into this today for you, and for the viva tomorrow, that you will be able to somehow concentrate on it and show all you know. I'm so sorry things are so difficult.

Praying for Zing and BES as you struggle with today....praying it has/will get better!

Where is Blue ? She has been quiet lately.

Tuo thanks so much for the roundup and your wonderful prayers. You bless me so much daily on here - you are a blessing! I pray that you will be blessed yourself today.

I had a lovely time yesterday as our little church came to me to have a service together as I haven't been able to go out to church for so long now - I felt very loved. What church should be about really....lots of kids running around having fun while we sung some songs and had readings etc. was lovely.

Peace to you all today.

BlackeyedSusan · 24/03/2014 15:10

Oh GC. Sad I would be tempted to only say things once from now on. things that will effect him. praying for concentration tomorrow.

got them to school ok. been in bed most of the afternoon did not sleep much as i have been coughing everytime I drop off! going to dose up on ibuprofen/paracetamol shortly to get the maximum effect for hometime after gym.

BlackeyedSusan · 24/03/2014 15:26

Oh bugger. ds wants to do the gym competition on the same day that dd wants to go to an activity at church. I could weep. they are both at the same time. I am at the point of not caring about church at all but dd does. ds wants ot do the comp. shit, shit shit shit shit.

I had conflicts of interest last weekend too leading to tears from dd and me I can't do it anymore.

BlessedAssurance · 24/03/2014 15:31

Ginger not much to say here other than i am Sad that this is going on in your life. Will be praying for you.
Bes tea with lots of lemon with honey helps me when i have one of those coughs. You have to use the whole lemon and it has to be really sour. Hope you get better.
Tuo thank you and blessings your way too. We are blessed by your prayers.

MHD i know what you mean. Our pastor and his wife took some time out of their busy schedules to come and dinner with us at our home. Our church is big, we had to open another denomination and has over 40 nations. However they came and it was lovely having them. Saturday it was 2 ladies from church with their kids coming. We all had a great time. Today i had another lady from church visiting with her kids for hours and us getting to know each other it was so wonderful.

To top it up two more ladies from church asked if they can come on wednesday and spend time with me.Grin.All these women have children the same age as my DD and the outpouring of love is overwhelming in a good way. I have never had so much socialising before and i believe God is answering my prayer and bringing me to the notice of other people. It feels good to be at the receiving end of so much love and they are all thinking about me not being able to walk much and needing some company. It couldn't have happened at a perfect time. I thank God for each and every one of them for making the effort. Some live quite far as well.

BlessedAssurance · 24/03/2014 15:32

They came and had dinner with us..typo