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A new Christian prayer thread for Autumn and Advent... All welcome!

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Tuo · 06/11/2013 00:03

Starting a new thread as we head from Autumn into Winter... This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve the loss of her dad; we pray too for her aunt, who’s very ill, and for all those affected by the death of Badvoc’s uncle who was estranged from the rest of the family;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health and for BES to know how best to help and support her, for strength to deal with her DS’s meltdowns, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... Bluetinkerbell, in her new job and as she explores her vocation;

... bountyicecream, who is in a very difficult relationship situation and needs our prayers – may she find strength and support and self-belief;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks that she has had the strength to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and praying for a happy future for her and for her DC;

... cloutiedumpling, thanking God that her DS doesn’t need surgery, and praying for his continued good health;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, for her niece, little Grace, born prematurely – may she continue to grow in strength; also for Mome’s health, and in particular her persistent headaches – may they turn out to be easily treatable; and for Mome’s DS to receive the support he needs at school;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; for Oma’s eyes – giving thanks for good sight in the one already treated, and praying for the one still to be done;

... EasyCompadre, for a healthy pregnancy, and for the strength to do what she needs to do for her business while waiting to meet her baby;

... fluffyduckie, that her terminally ill relative is well looked-after and as well as is possible in the circumstances, without too much pain; and that fluffy find a church where she feels comfortable and where she finds a supportive community to sustain her faith;

... FriendOfDorothy, grieving for the loss of her mum – may she know love and support at this difficult time;

... Gingercurl, for the successful completion and examination of her thesis; for strength and discernment for A; for Ginger’s nephew, who has health concerns and is suffering bullying – may he know health and strength and love; and for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaith, for her to feel happier now that she has been prescribed anti-depressants; for rest and peace of mind; and for her to find a church where she feels comfortable and welcomed;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her, and for peace and love in her immediate and broader family;

... Kaykat, as she continues to deal with the breakdown of her marriage, giving thanks for the support she has already received and the strength which she has found, and praying that she is soon settled in her own home with her DS;

... LollipopViolet, as she mourns her grandad, and as she explores her faith;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness - may she be well enough to spend this Christmas at home with her family and not in hospital; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... MaryBS, for her work as a Reader, for her DS, and for her friend who was recently diagnosed with stomach cancer;

... niminypiminy, as she begins ordination training; and praying also for her mum’s health, following a recent fall;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular for her parents’ health and for PA and her sister as they take care of them; for her DD1, thanking God that her depression has lifted and that she is enjoying university, and praying for a job for her; for her DD3 who is pregnant, due in February – may she have a trouble-free pregnancy and birth and may she know the joy of being a mother; praying also for PA as her DD3’s pregnancy brings to her mind her DD, Emma, sadly born too soon; and for her DS who is struggling with settling back in the UK, for his studies and for a job for him; and finally praying for PA’s DH and DD4 in Cambodia – may they stay safe and well;

... RoomForALittleOne, for the whole family as her DH embarks on an exciting new curacy placement;

... tunnocksteacake and family, as they cope with Mr Tunnocks’ illness; and

... youretoastmildred, for her friend, R, for a swift recovery from her operation.

We pray also for more occasional visitors and those we haven’t seen for a while: for BoxOfDelights, for thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for JakeBullet, for jan and her DD, for notquiteagrownup, for SES, for Soozi, and for weegiemum. And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen

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NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 09/11/2013 20:47

Stepping in this evening to ask for some prayers for guidance with my son.

We are having a very challenging time with him at the moment and we would welcome as much support as we can get.

Thank you TUO for your prayer at the end of your OP. It is exactly what I need today. x

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Dutchoma · 09/11/2013 20:58

Very welcome NKU. How old is ds? Praying for a peaceful night for all of you.

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NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 09/11/2013 21:07

thank you Dutchoma.
He is nearly 10 and had a 2 hour meltdown today punching hitting kicking and throwing things. DH and I are battered and bruised and there are holes in his wall from where he has thrown things Sad

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BlackeyedSusan · 09/11/2013 23:46

does he have a diagnosis nku?

both dd and ds had bottles of formula in the evening. it saved my sanity. (and boobs) the midwife said that he would be likely to give up breast feeding if he had a bottle of formula. she was right, in the end. i had to wait another two and a half years though. Grin

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 10/11/2013 06:43

I didn't find it worked when I gave a bottle with DD at bedtime. It didn't make her sleep longer.

Are they waking from hunger?

It really does sound like that hideous sleep regression they go through at about 4 months. And it lasted for awhile with both of mine.

However maybe your h could give a bottle so you could sleep a bit longer at night sometimes? Would that help?

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thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts · 10/11/2013 06:58

Today is the first time I've preached at a Remembrance Service which is incredibly daunting as I have old soldiers, serving military and scouts turning up with flags so trying to produce something meaningful and very short as we aim to get the 2 minutes silence on time has been a real challenge. Any spare prayers this morning would be very welcome!

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Kaykat · 10/11/2013 09:04

Am praying greenheart. And NKU.

I also had a challenging day with DS yesterday. He told me that his dad used to keep me calm and without him I'm mental amongst other unpleasant things. This isnt his normal sort of language, he was probably copying things his dad has said. This is all because he doesn't like washing or getting out of bed so we are often late for things and he doesn't like me rushing him.

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PositiveAttitude · 10/11/2013 09:07

praying Green

Prayers would be appreciated here....I need to make a decision about a job I do, but it is all so complicated. It's only a "fill in when others are off sick/holiday cover" job, so not regular. I was given a load of shifts for November and December......I should be happy for the money, if nothing else, I seriously need it, but it feels wrong! I have been praying about whether I should give it up.....On one side there is the money..I have been praying for more money, so is this the answer to that prayer. BUt if it is, then why on earth does it feel wrong. I do enjoy the work......ish! Confused I just want to do what is right....I trust God for our finances, but I don't want to chop out this income (although it really is minimal, tbh) I do think that this job is actually stopping me doing what I know God wants me to do, really. Oh I don't know.....clarity would be good!!

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PandaG · 10/11/2013 09:10

praying for sleep, for peace in the NKU household and wisdom how to deal with DS.

Greenheart, praying for you and those you preach to this morning.

We are taking our German exchange student to church with us today, he has asked whe the poppies mean, so hoping it should not be awkward for him. Church friend of our is German, so will be able to explain further.

Having an exchange student is very tiring - parenting someone else's teen with very different expectations - no you cannot go out at night to meet people I don't know, with no idea of where you are going or how you are getting back. I am pretty sure he was invited to a party (being tall, attractive and sporty) which my son (being small and nerdy/geeky) was not invited to. If he could tell me where he was going to go we'd have taken him and picked him up, just like we would DS (or let him walk if local and appropriate). Invited a friend of DS's and his exchange partner round instead - they had a pleasant evening and I knew where they were!

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trish5000 · 10/11/2013 09:48

PositiveAttitude. Are you able to analise why it feels wrong? Often then, imo it is wrong. But sometimes it is right, but it is ourselves that are feeling a bit off about other things, iyswim.

Praying for those on here.

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Dutchoma · 10/11/2013 10:40

If you feel that this job is stopping you from doing what God wants you to do then it is wrong. It is not the first time you have relied on God for your income and the job may not be the answer to prayer that God has given you.

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amberlight · 10/11/2013 12:41

NKU, praying. Are you able to say whether your fine lad has a diagnosis of any kind for something that may cause the meltdowns?
Here, it wasn't a very splendid week last week. Family horse had to be put down. Lost a friend to cancer. Car broke down. Been praying through it all.
And keeping everyone here in prayers.

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RoomForALittleOne · 10/11/2013 13:02

Afternoon All. Really struggling today as DD3's sleep continues to get worse. I don't think that weaning or a bottle will help but have no idea how to break a nighttime sleep association with feeding when she is too young to night wean. She clearly isn't hungry every two hours though Hmm

I also struggle with Remembrance Sunday. DH was interviewed at length about his time serving in Iraq this morning. I could have done without that. Selfish I know. But at least I'm being honest.

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NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 10/11/2013 14:37

thank you everyone for being so kind. He has no diagnosis of anything, and 95% of the time he is a gorgeous boy who I am proud to call my son.
The other 5% though does feel like a dirty secret. All of this behaviour is saved for us at home.

He has just started playing rugby and I am hoping this will help him channel his agression into something constructive?

Your prayers are truly appreciated. Wisdom will come, I am sure.
My prayers today are focused on those who have troubling memories or emotions regarding rememberance day and for all those who have lost their lives in battle as either civilians or soldiers.

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NeverKnowinglyUnderstood · 10/11/2013 14:47

RFALO - Do you have a partner/husband? the thing about the bottle isn't necessarily about your daughter sleeping longer, but if you had that option you could feed her at 8 then go straight to bed and get a solid 4-6 hours if your partner was happy to do what ever was needed at 10 and 12.
I know alot of people don't like it for many reasons but formula isn't poison and if it breaks the cycle of her wanting you for food at that time (she can have lovely cuddles with daddy) that would potentially benefit both of you?
Praying for God to guide you as to the right solution for you and your family unit.

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cloutiedumpling · 10/11/2013 14:56

RFALO - does DD sleep in her own room? I was reluctant to put one of our DCs into his own room before 6 months due to the advice about SIDS prevention. Once he was in his own room though he slept much better and longer.

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RoomForALittleOne · 10/11/2013 15:20

Yes, I have a DH and he is very supportive but I think he might find that hard and I'm trying to protect him from any more stress as he finishes at college.

DD3 is in a cot right next to our bed. It may move a bit further from our bed when I sell the Moses basket and glider chair...

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cloutiedumpling · 10/11/2013 15:48

Could the cot be moved so that she can't see you? DD and I share a room when we stay at my parents' house and she tends to wake me up much more often because she can see me. I've been tempted to set up the travel cot in the hall and may do that next time I visit. I hope it gets better soon. There's a good reason why sleep deprivation is used as a torture technique.

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thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts · 10/11/2013 16:04

Thank you for the prayers. The service went well and I always cry at some point at Remembrance but managed to hold it together to a point where no one could see the vicar having a bit of a moment.

My middle child didn't sleep through until 9 months. I look at him now and the wonderful human being that he is but wonder how I survived as it is just so tough when they don't sleep so prayers for better nights

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thehorridestmumintheworld · 10/11/2013 17:14

Prayers for you all greenheart glad your service went well.
NKU it might be worth finding out if your DS has a health problem. I will pray God helps lead you to people who can help.

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HadALittleFaith · 10/11/2013 19:06

Hello all. It seems I fell off the old thread just before the new one was started. I've been reading through, I'm on my phone so may struggle to name check a bit but will try!

Room, you have my sympathy. I have finally got Faithlet into a routine and sleeping better but it took drastic attempts (controlled crying) to achieve it. I did read The No Cry Sleep Solution which has lots of tips on improving settling and I highly recommend it. Do you have a bedtime routine? We introduced formula at about 4 months which helped to reduce the cluster feeding in the evenings which made a huge difference to me. I had misgivings about it but it was the right thing to do. Now she is mix fed at nearly 7 months taking alternate BF and bottles.

bes sorry to hear things are still tough with DS. How are things with the school? How's your Mum?

badvoc I'm so sorry to hear about your Aunty. Praying for her and all your family at this difficult time.

Welcome to the newbies/returners. Good to have you here :)

Tuo thanks for the thread.

PA praying about work and your family.

I am feeling much better. The tablets have kicked in. Faithlet is on new reflux meds which have helped massively and now she is sleeping better (napping in her cot in the day rather than in the car/pushchair/on me!) I have more energy to play with her when she is awake. I feel much more relaxed too. I decided to go back to my church and push into it rather than leave and start over. DH isn't coming (prayers for his faith please!) but I'm taking Faithlet and suddenly feel better about my faith and feel positive about church.

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PositiveAttitude · 11/11/2013 08:53

Lovely to have you back Faith and so wonderful that life is sorting out for you. Prayers for your husband and for you as he struggles with faith. Hang in there and pray for him. God has him in his hands.

Room you have my sympathy. I remember the zombie feeling very well!!! You WILL come out the other side. pray that God will give you the energy and grace to get through this time. DD2 was my worst and I used some natural herbal stuff that you just use a couple of drops of before putting them down for the night - this was 21 years ago, I haven't got a clue what it was called!!! - first time I gave it was the first time she ever slept for 3 solid hours, she was 3 months old.......I did not relax for one minute because I was convinced I had given her too much and had done her damage, so I sat watching every breath for those 3 hours, then woke her up to make sure she was alive! Hmm

Thank you for your prayers about my work....It is a bit more complicated than I said, but I now have a peace about it. I will be giving it up. I am going in today and chatting with one of the other ladies who I work with.....she wants more hours, so I think I can palm most of mine off to her.
The main problem, as I see it with the situation, is that there are 3 people who are mostly trying to please me, but have a wrong idea of what I actually want.

  1. top boss who I know from church, (not a church job, this one!) who knows that I am financially very stretched and he is insisting that I am given as many hours as possible!
  2. Lovely lady who's job I took, but she then came back to the job, but does not want me to feel pushed out, so she backs off work that could be shared as she doesn't want me to think she is taking all the hours!
  3. my immediate boss lady, who repeatedly tells me that I should not have been employed!! Hmm but she has pressure from top boss to give me the hours - but lets me know that she doesn't really want to!
    Oh and another boss who is getting very twitchy about me having a "zero hours" contract and seems to think that if I am given hours I wont complain and cause problems.......but actually a zero hours is exactly what I want!!! And I would most definitely not complain anyway!

    So, in summary, I am going to have to be totally honest with everyone.....but one lady is now off sick for about 3 months, so I will have to step in to help out during that time, but only as a last result. I will trust God for the finances....yes, DO I should be used to this by now!
    All as clear as mud! Grin
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HadALittleFaith · 11/11/2013 14:11

Praying for clarity PA!

God's timing is amazing....I was procrastinating about talking to my boss about going back to work. I finally contacted her last week about going in today. Wednesday we had a conversation about me going part time and doing without the childcare we'd booked. Then Thursday the childminder contacted me to say she could no longer accommodate Faithlet! My boss has agreed to me doing exactly the shifts I want. I feel so relieved and content about going back and the set up we've got (my Dad will have her twice a week and DH at the weekends). Praise God! :)

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FairPhyllis · 11/11/2013 14:44

Hi

I don't normally post on this thread, but I would just like to say that I really need some prayers right now. I can't say what it is about, but it's a very worrying situation, and I'd really appreciate your prayers.

Phyll

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Dutchoma · 11/11/2013 15:23

Dear Phyll God knows your circumstances exactly and He will be with you, whatever you face. I'm praying for calm clarity and wisdom for you.

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