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A new Christian prayer thread for Autumn and Advent... All welcome!

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Tuo · 06/11/2013 00:03

Starting a new thread as we head from Autumn into Winter... This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what’s going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Badvoc and her family, as they grieve the loss of her dad; we pray too for her aunt, who’s very ill, and for all those affected by the death of Badvoc’s uncle who was estranged from the rest of the family;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health and for BES to know how best to help and support her, for strength to deal with her DS’s meltdowns, and for both her DC to receive the support that they need at school;

... Bluetinkerbell, in her new job and as she explores her vocation;

... bountyicecream, who is in a very difficult relationship situation and needs our prayers – may she find strength and support and self-belief;

... CharlotteCollinsisinherownplace, giving thanks that she has had the strength to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and praying for a happy future for her and for her DC;

... cloutiedumpling, thanking God that her DS doesn’t need surgery, and praying for his continued good health;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, for her niece, little Grace, born prematurely – may she continue to grow in strength; also for Mome’s health, and in particular her persistent headaches – may they turn out to be easily treatable; and for Mome’s DS to receive the support he needs at school;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; for Oma’s eyes – giving thanks for good sight in the one already treated, and praying for the one still to be done;

... EasyCompadre, for a healthy pregnancy, and for the strength to do what she needs to do for her business while waiting to meet her baby;

... fluffyduckie, that her terminally ill relative is well looked-after and as well as is possible in the circumstances, without too much pain; and that fluffy find a church where she feels comfortable and where she finds a supportive community to sustain her faith;

... FriendOfDorothy, grieving for the loss of her mum – may she know love and support at this difficult time;

... Gingercurl, for the successful completion and examination of her thesis; for strength and discernment for A; for Ginger’s nephew, who has health concerns and is suffering bullying – may he know health and strength and love; and for Ginger’s MIL who has been diagnosed with cancer;

... HadALittleFaith, for her to feel happier now that she has been prescribed anti-depressants; for rest and peace of mind; and for her to find a church where she feels comfortable and welcomed;

... JugglingFromHereToThere, for a job which interests and fulfils her, and for peace and love in her immediate and broader family;

... Kaykat, as she continues to deal with the breakdown of her marriage, giving thanks for the support she has already received and the strength which she has found, and praying that she is soon settled in her own home with her DS;

... LollipopViolet, as she mourns her grandad, and as she explores her faith;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness - may she be well enough to spend this Christmas at home with her family and not in hospital; praying too for health and love and friendship for MHD’s DD;

... MaryBS, for her work as a Reader, for her DS, and for her friend who was recently diagnosed with stomach cancer;

... niminypiminy, as she begins ordination training; and praying also for her mum’s health, following a recent fall;

... PositiveAttitude and her family; in particular for her parents’ health and for PA and her sister as they take care of them; for her DD1, thanking God that her depression has lifted and that she is enjoying university, and praying for a job for her; for her DD3 who is pregnant, due in February – may she have a trouble-free pregnancy and birth and may she know the joy of being a mother; praying also for PA as her DD3’s pregnancy brings to her mind her DD, Emma, sadly born too soon; and for her DS who is struggling with settling back in the UK, for his studies and for a job for him; and finally praying for PA’s DH and DD4 in Cambodia – may they stay safe and well;

... RoomForALittleOne, for the whole family as her DH embarks on an exciting new curacy placement;

... tunnocksteacake and family, as they cope with Mr Tunnocks’ illness; and

... youretoastmildred, for her friend, R, for a swift recovery from her operation.

We pray also for more occasional visitors and those we haven’t seen for a while: for BoxOfDelights, for thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, for JakeBullet, for jan and her DD, for notquiteagrownup, for SES, for Soozi, and for weegiemum. And we pray for those who read and pray but don’t post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God’s love.

Calm us, O Lord, as You stilled the storm.
Still us, O Lord, keep us from harm.
Let all the tumult within us cease.
Enfold us, Lord, in Your peace. Amen

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amberlight · 25/12/2013 22:22

DO, not easy. But you have done a good thing in getting him to good care. It's tough going for you. Much prayer.
And prayer for everyone else.

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GingerCurl · 26/12/2013 12:00

Praying as I read through.
Thanking God for answered prayers. "Things" settled down between DH and I overnight between the 23rd and Christmas Eve and have remained so since and not in a nice-on-the-surface-massive-tensions-underneath way either. I think we both realise that we really do love each other, but have drifted apart over time. I pray that we will find our way back again.
We've celebrated a Swedish Christmas Eve with ham, meatballs and different varieties of pickled herring and presents from our Swedish visitors and then a British Christmas Day with turkey and all the trimmings and presents from the British family. DSis and I went to Midnight Mass at the cathedral in Lichfield. Neither of us had experienced "smells" before and giggled as the thurifer was trailed by coughing amongst the people as she worked her way around the church. But the service was lovely and we were both intrigued by how it managed to be both welcoming and intimate while being quite formal at the same time. This year I have been particularly struck by much God loves us and how close he is and wants to be to us. It's too much to take in sometimes. (sorry for long post Blush }

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Dutchoma · 26/12/2013 12:40

Ginger what a relief to read your post. So grateful to God for doing what He does best: being Emmanuel-God with us.

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NoRoomForALittleOne · 26/12/2013 23:07

How was Boxing Day for you, DO?

And has anybody heard from BES?

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DontstepontheBaubles · 26/12/2013 23:15

Hi all
Kids were a dream in the car, so the prayers clearly worked. Couple of silly moments in service stations but being cooped up in a car all day wouldn't help. I left later than I wanted to and I did get cross with them before I left Blush but the rest of the day was fab. Got here at 7.45pm though! Exhausted. Night all and thanks again for the prayers. Let's hope tomorrow is also a good day with the outlaws Wink

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Dutchoma · 27/12/2013 05:49

Thank you Room. Boxing Day was ok. I felt as if I had been very ill and was now on the way to recovery, but fragile and easily tired. I texted dd that I would be pleased to see her any time between 12 and 5; it was her suggestion we could go and 'do' something, but in the end she overslept and did not come till gone 3.30 and stayed till just gone 5. She did go and see her dad, but only stayed ten minutes. The boyfriend was parked in the pub and I didn't see him. For the rest of the day I pottered, got the house back in order, put all the presents away, cleared some leaves. the weather was nice. Got a couple of emails from dear friends one of whom is in the USA with her dd. Didn't hear from Bob, although dd had a text from him. Was extraordinarly tired and went to bed before 10.30. Woke up before 5 this morning.
The last I heard from BES was at 2 on Christmas Day when she said her mum had tests and might be coming home that day. I asked whether I should try and put the two of you in touch, Room which she had said she would like but have no answer.

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GingerCurl · 27/12/2013 10:02

Praying. Especially for DO, BES and PA.

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NoRoomForALittleOne · 27/12/2013 19:39

Has today been any better, DO? Do they have a plan for Bob?

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Dutchoma · 27/12/2013 20:11

Thanks Room. No unfortunately not, in some ways it has become worse. When I got there I asked where the lid of one of the tins of thickener was and he said:"They lost it, bloody incompetent bunch." I said that I would like him to apologise for that but he said: "No", in a really nasty way. He kept complaining about everything and when he wanted the commode I went out and sat in the patients' lounge for a bit. Spoke to the housemother who knew him from last time and she said that they really didn't mind what he threw at them as they went home at the end of the shift, but felt sorry for me as I was in the situation all the time, even though he was in the hospice. I have suggested that there may be some benefit in keeping him on exactly the same epilepsy medication as he had at home as there have been episodes in the past when he has become very unreasonable when there were even very small changes. I'm going up at 4pm on Monday as he will have seen the consultant then and he may have made a plan. He is just going round in circles in his own mind, he said he was hungry all the time but can't eat because even when he has his dentures in they are too loose and he can't have adhesive on them because then he can't get them out and so on and so forth, going round in circles and making life hell for everyone but most of all for himself.

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Kaykat · 28/12/2013 09:23

Poor you Oma it sounds like nothing will please him atm I guess none of us like change and combined with the fear that he may not return home must make him very grumpy. It will be better when you have a plan but I think it will take time for him to come to terms with it. Are you managing to get out and about a bit and not be lonely? Can you get to chuch tomorrow?

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Kaykat · 28/12/2013 09:26

My Christmas was 100 times better than last year.

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Dutchoma · 28/12/2013 09:49

That's lovely to hear Kaykat.

I don't really feel like 'poor Oma', but am very concerned for Bob and wondering where this 'peace of God that passes all understanding' is for him?
So it will just have to be a case of waiting on God, but it is very hard.

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Dutchoma · 29/12/2013 16:01

I have now heard from BES who is still at her mother's while her mother is in hospital. She is well cared for but not very happy.
BES has asked for prayer for ds who is still being sick and feeling poorly. She got his bug as well for a bit. And for her mother obviously.

Meanwhile Bob remains in the hospice, also not very happy and a bit confused, but very well cared for. I decided to visit a different church to our own and got invited to lunch by some of our oldest friends who worship there. Lovely food and fellowship.

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bountyicecream · 29/12/2013 21:13

Praying quietly for everyone - especially DO and BES - that we will all feel God's hand on our lives.

Thanks to God for answering my prayers. It is one month since I left my husband and life feels immeasurably brighter. Like kaykat this has been a wonderful Christmas.

My ongoing prayer for me, is that since I left, my husband is claiming to have re-discovered God. He has been attending church, reading the bible, attending bible study and tells me that God is doing great things in his life, and that he realises how badly he behaved towards me. I have prayed this through with my parents and the thing that has been shown to me through the bible is that change is like a fruit which takes time to grow and develop. So I have asked my husband for time and space to heal myself. So far he is respecting my wishes and needs.

So my prayer is one of thanks for the work that God seems to be doing in my husbands life, and wisdom for me to be able to see whether he has a genuine desire to change.

Love and prayers to everyone xxx

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Tuo · 29/12/2013 23:10

Hello all. I am back, and feeling refreshed and very blessed. Thanking God for my lovely family and for my parents' continued good health despite advancing years. Also thankful that we all got on well, despite 10 days in one another's company, which I think is probably longer than I've spent with my parents all in one go for a good 20 years or more and certainly longer than DH (not a man known for his patience, bless him!) has ever spent with them.

Praying for all on this thread, whether regulars, occasional posters or lurkers... but thinking especially of Oma and Bob, of BES, her DS and her mum, and of PA's DD3. Thanking God for good Christmases this year for Kay and Bounty, and for Gingercurl, and for Christmas at home for MHD (hooray! Smile ).

One day over Christmas I found that 'Dear Lord and Father of Mankind' had popped into my head. Its words echo the prayer at the end of the OP for this thread, and probably apply to many of us at this stressful time of year, so I'll share just a few of them:

Drop Thy still dews of quietness,
Till all our strivings cease;
Take from our souls the strain and stress,
And let our ordered lives confess
The beauty of Thy peace.

Amen, and happy Christmas to all.

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DontstepontheBaubles · 30/12/2013 07:57

Hello all

It's been probably the nicest time I've ever had with my outlaws. Living in close quarters for a few days with them in their home can be something I dread, as we have very different ideas in how to discipline my kids, time to eat, time for bed etc. I haven't let it bother me this time and have tried to relax. The kids don't want to go home.

I'll begin the long drive back later. Probably about 9am.

Bounty that's great that he's rediscovering God but I agree that real change can take time. Praying for you.

Lovely that you had such a great 10 day break TUO. That verse is lovely and reminds me of that song by Tim Hughes. I suspect he plucked a line or two from this one.

Did I tell you I had my MRI result? My brain is normal. The headaches are nerve damage and nothing sinister.

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Dutchoma · 30/12/2013 19:08

Mome that is wonderful news about the MRI. What it is to have a normal brain. Grin
And hopefully you are now safely home and the kids in their beds?

Well, I did not sleep between 3.15 and 6.15, then dropped off again and had just got up to make a second cup of tea when I had a call from the hospice. Bob had what they now think was a panic attack, but what looked like a heart attack so they had the full ECG and all observations were normal. They'd given him something to calm him down and he was peaceful. They said it would be nice if I could come in, no rush, so I got there 10.45. Bob asleep on the bed, breathing more normally than I have seen him doing for eight years. He woke up quite confused and kept drifting off to sleep. The doctor came to see him, said she had been quite distressed by the way he had been. she suggested a syringe driver so he could have some anti anxiety meds over a prolonged period of time and he agreed to it, but said that it was 'horrible, a weight around his neck'. I left him with his dinner, went to have something to eat myself and spend an hour at home, then came back. We spoke to the chaplain, who kneeled by his bed an sang to him, so beautiful. He is really having the most exquisite care. I spoke to him (the chaplain) later and he said that I should not speak to Bob as a rational being, but address his 'inner child', which was frightened and lost. On the way out I spoke to one of the other doctors who said that in the team meeting they had agreed that Bob has a 'catastrophic' view of life, which prevents him from seeing anything good in the situation. Please pray for him to see the light of Christ.

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amberlight · 30/12/2013 19:14

Praying hard...

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PositiveAttitude · 30/12/2013 20:44

DO Praying that the light of Christ will shine into Bob and he will feel the peace that passes all our understanding. Praying that you, too have that touch from Christ.

DD3 is doing well, thank you for the prayers. Baby still hanging on and bleeding has stopped.

Christmas was not the best here, but i am looking forward now to 2014. Prayers for a peaceful and God filled new year for you all.

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DontstepontheBaubles · 30/12/2013 22:16

DO I got home at 8.30. I haven't unpacked yet. Felt it could wait.

Today is the day Grace was meant to be born on (due date) instead the poor love had immunisations and a blood test.

Praying for Bob DO x

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bountyicecream · 30/12/2013 22:59

Praying for you and bob DO

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Kaykat · 30/12/2013 23:47

Good to hear from you again bounty so glad that you are starting to heal. As to whether your h is genuine i think time will give you the answer. If he isn't genuine when something doesn't go his way he will show his true colours.

I worry about ds sometimes he acts just like his dad but i don't know if its just normal teenager stropping. My big regret is not leaving h 10 years ago so he would have less influence. It never even crossed my mind that separation was an option until he cheated on me.

Continuing prayers for ons and bob

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Kaykat · 30/12/2013 23:51

That should say oma and bob how rude of my predictive text to change your name to ons

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Dutchoma · 31/12/2013 04:29

Don't worry about it Kay. I just wonder what 'ons' is?

Oh yes, Mome the unpacking can wait.

I am awake at stupid o'clock again and didn't even go to bed that early.

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RunRunRuby · 31/12/2013 11:45

Praying for a happy and healthy New Year for everyone. Especially that Bob is able to find peace.

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