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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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Bluetinkerbell · 17/09/2013 21:03

Could do with some prayers as I need to write an essay about 'what happens during baptism'.
Preferably by Thursday night.

Thoughts/ideas/reflections welcome :)

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2013 21:12

I suppose, "you get wet" is not sufficient? though technically, if, according to some branches of christianity, if you have not made personal commitment to christ, then that is all that happens.

our current church uses a plastic sheep dip, a previous one used birthing pool. funnily enough, the one using the sheep dip is on the edge of the countrryside and the one using thte birthing pool is full of medics of vraious desciptions. (it was always said that if someone was ill aat my old church and "is there a dr in the house" ws shouted... the reply would come back, "which speciality?")

are they exopecting reflections on the symbolism of baptism, either from your churches particular viewpoint, or more general viewpoint?

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2013 21:14

mary, I have got igloo... whuich it turns out is the stuff dad was prescribed years go and gave me a spare tube of.

still struggling to eat though. not that I will suffer for that.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/09/2013 21:14

oops forgot to add praying for the school bus situation.

Bluetinkerbell · 17/09/2013 21:17

I guess a I don't have a clue what she expects, isn't helpful?
Been reading several books and would be able to quote lots but can't think of what to write myself

HaveALittleFaith · 17/09/2013 21:45

Blue what hit home to me about Baptism was that its very much symbolic. They made sure in my church we reflected on that and were prepared not to be overcome by the Spirit during the baptism itself. It's more about expressing your faith and making a public declaration.

Praying about the bus situation and that the igloo helps.

Tuo · 18/09/2013 00:21

Praying for all...

Firstly for tunnocksteacake and her family in this difficult time, for love and strength and support and hope to be with them and in them and around them...

Praying for Faith - I'm sorry you're feeling so low and I pray you feel better soon. Oma's advice is good (isn't it always?) - take your time and try not to feel pressured.

Praying for the family and friends of Andy. Such a sad situation. And also for weegiemum... Do you know how she is getting on, Oma? How is her health these days?

Praying for Mary's DS and the bus situation. May it be resolved happily and quickly so that he feels happy to continue using the bus.

Praying for BES - that her ulcer clears up soon. I swear by Anbesol, but am also a fan of Corsodyl (which has helped me with my rubbish teeth and gums).

Praying for Oma and Bob - for health and strength and rest.

Praying for PA and family - that her DH got his bike back, that her DD1 is happy at university, that her DD3's pregnancy is progressing well, that her DS is enjoying his new course, and that her DDs 2 and 4 are happy too.

Praying for Blue - for inspiration for her essay. I'd have a look at the liturgy for baptism and take that as my starting point... What is literally happening (e.g. promises are made, water, oil, etc.) and what is symbolically happening? I am always struck (and moved) by how much of the service is about what our duty, as ordinary members of the Church, is towards the person being baptised, whether a child or an adult. I think one of the things I like most is that the service is as much about the Body of Christ into which the individual being baptised is being welcomed as about the individual her- or himself.

Praying for Mome (did you sort out childcare for the course you were meant to be leading?) and MHD and BoxOfDelights and amber and anyone I've forgotten.

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 18/09/2013 06:53

I'm leading a group. Not the course Grin It runs very much like an Alpha course.

I'm slowly working out childcare. I'm always so glad I do because when a Mum going through a divorce manages to get there, she needs someone who understands and has been through it running/ helping in her group. There are lots of volunteers but volunteers with young kids are a rare breed. It's the only thing I commit to post divorce. God always helps me find a way to get there. Despite me sometimes feeling it's a spiritual battle to at times. It'll all work out. After over two years of helping 3 times a year, I can say that with confidence. God is good and it's a privilege to serve people going through this awful time of separation and divorce. I also do some admin for them, answer course enquiries, amend the website, and feature on their course DVD being released. Big passion of mine, as you can tell Wink

The kids love babysitters. God's helped me find some good ones (if costly). They're used to it and enjoy it as well.

People from my Church help me too. They love them as well. Although as I said, their help has lessened lately. Probably as they need to be at mine for 5.45pm and I don't get home until 11. It's a long stretch. This course is in London so it wouldn't be practical for people in London to come out to me to help with babysitter and the course budget is too small to fund my costs.

I'm definitely not defeatist about getting out as a lone parent though. I refuse to subscribe to being at home as a lone parent. They're 4 & 6 now. I feel I had that season and this is my new one. It'll be ok but prayers always gratefully received. Bring it on x

BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2013 07:24

agggh. beginning to think there is an underlying infection. i have ear ache on the sme side, aa soe throat and wht feels like an ulcer.

MaryBS · 18/09/2013 08:30

Prayers for healing, BES

amberlight · 18/09/2013 12:20

Prayers continuing. I'm a bit quiet on here, I know. But I do pray.

Tuo · 18/09/2013 12:46

In haste, as I'm at work, but just to say that your contribution sounds amazing, Momey...

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BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2013 13:45

thanks mary.

madhairday · 18/09/2013 15:55

Poor you, BES, praying for quick recovery.

Praying for tunnocks and for the family of Andy :(

Hope the essay goes well, Blue. I'm quite sacramental in my view of baptism and believe God does something in it too, even in babies. I think God is bigger than we can imagine...I'm not of the babies go to hell unless baptised school at all, but think God works mysteriously in his grace when we call on him in whatever way....

Keeping you all in my prayers.

Bluetinkerbell · 18/09/2013 16:11

thank you for the prayers.
Feel really low, and feel like I should postpone my meeting with the DDO. I'm really stuck with the essay. I've also got a cold coming and my head feels all fuzzy and can't concentrate.
Last time I met her I was really tired and felt like I kind of messed up my meeting and because of that ended up with the task of writing this silly essay. Feel like saying, look I've done the reading, but I can't really write anything about baptism except for quoting what I've read.
Not sure what to do. I've been sitting here in the office on my own crying about it.

madhairday · 18/09/2013 16:18

Oh Blue, holding your hand across cyber space.

Can you take some time out and come back to it?

Praying for you.

Dutchoma · 18/09/2013 16:36

Blue I'm sure it will come. Just start it, write something, anything, we're praying for you. God Himself will help you.

MaryBS · 18/09/2013 19:51

Hugs and prayers Blue. If its causing you that much angst, its not right. If I can help, just shout.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2013 20:20

praying tunnocks, in the middle of the night and tonight. may god hold you in his everlasting arms.

LollipopViolet · 18/09/2013 21:25

Could I please ask for you to pray for my granddad? He has been ill for over 3 weeks - thread here and it is now almost certain he has some form of lung cancer.

I am very, very scared. This whole sequence of events has led to me beginning to find some faith - I asked a lovely Christian friend if he would pray for DGranddad right at the start of his illness, when he was on a ventilator in a medically induced coma. The next day, he was well enough to come off the ventilator.

A similar thing happened with another relative a few years ago. I was volunteering at a Christian radio station, and this relative was ill, with what we thought was a very serious condition. I asked them to pray for her, and it turned out to be something far less serious.

Right now, I believe God has a plan for my family, and although I am scared what that plan may involve, I know that if I have faith, I will find the inner strength I need to come through this.

Sorry, that was very, very long. I will pray for all those who need it tonight, before I go to sleep.

GingerCurl · 18/09/2013 21:34

Praying as I'm reading through.
Am v. tired but meetings today and yesterday have gone well. Now I just have to follow up and follow through with what was agreed.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/09/2013 21:40

welcome violet. so sorry to hear about your grandad.

I have popped on to say that I have finally booked dd's party!, just a couple of months late. Blush now it is the difficult bit of only inviting thirteen of her friends.

Dutchoma · 18/09/2013 23:16

Marking a place for the evening prayer for Tunnocksteacake

tunnocksteacake · 18/09/2013 23:39

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Tuo · 19/09/2013 02:39

Praying for you, tunnocks, and thinking of you so much.

Also thinking of you, LollipopViolet, and praying for you and for your grandad. May you, and he, feel God's love very near you at this difficult time.

Praying for inspiration for Blue, for a great party for BES's DD, for Gingercurl (do you have a viva date yet?), for Mary's DS (how's the bus situation?), for Oma and Bob, and for all who frequent this thread.

I'm feeling very stressed about work. Just sheer volume of work (which explains why I'm here at this time!) and some stressful situations that I have to deal with and will, but which are putting a lot of pressure on me. Oh, and I have proofs to read too... which I can't do when I'm tired, I've discovered, as they just send me to sleep!

Thinking of all those mentioned above tonight, and others not on this thread, I feel it's time to roll out my old favourite:

Watch, dear Lord, with those who wake, or watch, or weep tonight, and let your angels protect those who sleep. Tend the sick. Refresh the weary. Sustain the dying. Calm the suffering. Pity the distressed. We ask this for the sake of your love. AMEN.

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