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New beginnings: a Christian prayer thread for summer

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Tuo · 13/07/2013 23:22

I have called this thread 'new beginnings', as it felt appropriate to lots of us at the moment, in a whole series of ways.

Since I started our last thread, back in April, we have welcomed Abigail Faith, daughter of HadALittleFaithBaby, and Hannah Faith, daughter of RoomForALittleOne. We thank God for their safe arrival and pray that He will watch over them and surround them with His love as they grow.

We pray for Kaykat and for CharlotteCollinsismovingon as they deal with the breakdown of their marriages. We pray not only for Kay, but also for her friend who has been providing her with excellent support and legal advice, for a clear way forward and a swift resolution. We pray for a clear and positive way forward also for Charlotte, and for her children to cope with this change in their lives with understanding and resilience.

We pray for PositiveAttitude as she settles back into life in the UK, and prepares for a period away from her DH and DD4. We pray, in particular, for her DD1, that she find a job in which she will feel supported and which will help her to feel happier and better able to cope with life. We also pray for happiness for PA's DD3, who has just got married, and for her DS in his new job. Finally we pray for the work of her DH in Cambodia, praying that the separation is bearable and that he continues to be able to make a real difference to people's lives over there.

We pray for BlueTinkerbell as she moves to a new home, looks for work, and continues to explore her vocation. May this move be a really positive new beginning for Blue and her family.

Likewise, we pray for niminypiminy who will begin ordination training in September.

And we pray for my church and diocese in the aftermath of some major structural changes. This is a new beginning that was imposed rather than chosen, but may it bring positive developments nonetheless.

We pray also for:

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of autism in churches, and for this work to be welcomed and valued, rather than greeted with incomprehension, far less hostility;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, we pray for her mum's health, for peaceful and restorative holidays, for order in her flat and with her paperwork, and for her DC; we pray especially that they both receive the support that they need from their school;

... BoxOfDelights, for her to receive a clear diagnosis and suitable treatment for her eye problem very soon;

... Don'tsteponthemomeraths, that her DS is able to access the support he needs and is valued and nurtured at school; for better support also for her DD; for better relationships at work; and for her nephew, who has suffered a burst appendix;

... DutchOma and Bob, for health for Bob and for good support (moral and practical) for Oma as she cares for him day by day; and for the ability to rest and breathe easily in this heat;

...JakeBullet as she deals with her uncle's ill-health and decision to move back to his native Switzerland. May he be well cared-for and peaceful there, and may Jake not miss him too much;

... MadHairDay, for health as she lives with chronic illness, and for strength as she mourns the death of a friend; we remember also MHD's friend and all who knew and loved her at this time;

We also pray for friends who haven't been around for a while... for Badvoc, for Gingercurl and her thesis, for Jan and her DD, for MaryBS, and for all those who lurk, for occasional visitors, and for those known to us who are in need of prayer, whether mentioned here or not.

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayers.

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PositiveAttitude · 19/09/2013 09:09

Good morning. Another one here like Amber - I daily read and pray, but not so often do I type out a post.

Prayers for everyone, but especially for Tunnock and all the family and for Violet and your granddad and all your family, too.

Prayers also for everyone struggling with work, study or relationships.

Update on my lot: DH is still looking for volunteer opportunities with an organisation, but he is busy doing his own thing and helping a lot of the people that our hearts went out to over the time we were both there. DD4 is doing very well there with him.
DD1 is doing well, although her student finances are still not sorted.
DD2 is well and enjoying being back in London.
DD3 is well, pregnancy is going well and she just about has a tiny bump now. (18 weeks!! At 16 weeks she was still wearing her size 6 jeans!!! Envy )
ANd DS!!! He is wonderful and I am so enjoying his company. He is really excited about his college course and he has just started a new job.....all good.
Me? Well, I seem to be busy all the time, but not doing a lot, really! I miss DH terribly! Sad My parents drive me crazy at times - although my sis has just returned from a 3 week holiday, so we will share care again. I am enjoying all my little jobs....a few more little ones would be good, but I still feel that there is the one job just for me, but it wont be now until maybe the end of the year.

Continuing to pray for everyone.

GingerCurl · 19/09/2013 09:53

Tuo I wish! (I'm sending you a PM.)

BlackeyedSusan · 19/09/2013 11:36

still praying tunnocks.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/09/2013 11:45

things are a little better here. eating is still difficult, but not so painful.

Bluetinkerbell · 19/09/2013 13:35

thank you all, I sat down with MIL last night and managed to write something up. Was going to finish it at work this morning, but forgot to bring the book I needed. Was for the best though, as work was like a pigeon hole this morning, lots of people in and out and I wouldn't have been able to do it anyway. Hoping I can find some time to do it when I get back home tonight and send it off! :)

LollipopViolet · 19/09/2013 13:50

Tuo that's a lovely prayer you posted - I'm still very new to all of this, I've never really prayed before, so just sort of doing my own thing

. I went ice skating today - the ice rink is my safe place, I can be myself there, and I have a lovely coach who will always have a chat with me over a cuppa if I need to talk.

My grandma is going to visit grandpa in the hospital in a little while. I pray that he is having a good day, that he is feeling stronger, and that we get some conclusive results today.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/09/2013 18:58

Things at work had been going better but it's all getting to me again. Hard to know if it's hormones, low self esteem, paranoia or any number of things. It's like a battle field of the mind right now. I can't escape the feeling I'm irritating to the girls. Not likeable/ popular or respected by them. Why does this even matter to me? It's their attitude and tone of voice that leads me to think this. The way they react when I suggest anything. They all go out together, meet up at weekends etc too.

I should just go in, do my job, keep my head down and leave. Stop worrying.

There's a lot of under currents there at the moment, lots of passive aggressive stuff. It's not all my imagination but I just need peace and a clear mind. I want to cry tonight.

Oh and I've had a budgeting disaster this week. My fault. So the bank will clobber me for that won't they.

I need some peace and my mind to stop replaying things tonight.

GingerCurl · 19/09/2013 20:09

I agree Lollipop That prayer Tuo posted is wonderful. I'm doing the prayers in church on Sunday evening and am thinking of using it in that somehow. Know that you and your beloved granddad are prayed for by the lovely ladies on this thread. They really are a fantastic bunch.

Praying for everyone as I read through.

I found out this afternoon that my cousin has decided that he wants to leave his wife of 12 years to pursue a new relationship. His wife is distraught. I am so sad for them. It has happened before 5 years ago but they managed to work it out that time. They were going to tell their two adopted children today. I pray for those kids and that God's will be done.

Bluetinkerbell · 19/09/2013 21:16

Essay finished and emailed to DDO :)

cloutiedumpling · 19/09/2013 21:38

Lurking and praying for everyone. Like Amber and PA I'm on here most days but don't often post.

Well done Blue!

Don'tstep - I've been in a similar situation in the past and it is ghastly. Would it be possible to keep an eye out for another job? Would it be worth phoning the bank? I forgot to pay my credit card on time and they waived the charges when I phoned to apologise.

Ginger - praying for everyone

I'm a bit stressed about the DCs. Nothing major, just lots of minor stuff all adding up together. I'm probably just blowing things out of proportion and just need to get a grip.

madhairday · 19/09/2013 21:40

That's so sad, Ginger :( Praying for all concerned.

Blue - yay! Knew you'd do it.

Lollipop, welcome and so sorry about your Grandad.

Dear, tunnocks, what incredibly painful words to read. Praying for you in your pain. May you know God in it with you.

Mome, praying that the work situation will improve, it sounds such hard going for you. And praying for the finance situation.

TUO, praying for you in the midst of your stressful work situation and all you have to get done. May you know the peace and calm that only God can bring.

Thanks for all who prayed for me a couple of weeks back when I was being a bit cryptic. Things are looking much clearer and much better. It was a horrible time there for a while...sorry to still be cryptic!

Praying that you all sleep well this night and feel surrounded by the love of Christ.

Dutchoma · 19/09/2013 22:05

Praying for Gingercurl's family and for her prayers in church to go well. Also for the end of her studies to be smooth and easy.

Well done Blue, hopefully the DDO will like it.

Tunnocks so sad for you to have to read those ghastly words. No, you cannot give up and God is a God of miracles. He is not giving up on you whatever happens.

Mome that work situation is horrible, especially since you like the job well enough. Just keep going as best you can.

TUO praying for you tonight as you so faithfully pray for us.
Goodnight all and God bless.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 20/09/2013 07:16

I'm still chewing over one incident that happened yesterday. I want to go into work with a clear head.

Thanks for the kind words. All my posts are me me me at the moment. Sorry.

Cloutie the hours of this job are perfect. My boss I know from Church. He wasn't in yesterday. It's the 3 girls and the dynamics I find hard. I need to keep pressing into God, seeking him and when it's time to move on, I'm sure he'll show me and find me another job that's perfect. It's certainly character building being here at times. As long as it doesn't squash my confidence so much that I never use my initiative in a new job and I'm afraid of doing things unless its strictly in my job description. As it's starting to get that way here.

I'm going to do a quiet time now. See if that helps.

MaryBS · 20/09/2013 08:00

The bus situation seems to be settling again, thank God! Please God it stays that way. Next week we are seeing the Ed Psych. Argh, please God she sees DS's needs and acts accordingly...

Keeping you all in prayer, God knows your needs better than me, but I still pray anyway :)

PositiveAttitude · 20/09/2013 11:22

Hi, Just flying by to pass on an answer to prayer. DH has been offered a volunteer post with a fantastic organisation. will come and explain more later, but in a bit of a rush right now.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 20/09/2013 14:55

Exciting PA.

Praying Mary! My kids school only has 3 Ed Psych appointments a year available so HT said and they're like gold dust. I'm pretty clueless as I'm still on road to diagnosis with my DS. He has blood tests next to check for fragile x etc. So praying lots for you and your DS x

BlackeyedSusan · 20/09/2013 14:55

off to my mums in a bit. just had narow escape slipping oin the stairs. may haave a sore arm, but at least the rest of me is intact.

RoomForALittleOne · 20/09/2013 18:30

Flying by to ask for prayer as we fly out to view a potential curacy for DH this weekend. Prayers particularly appreciated for DD3 to sleep well tomorrow evening while we have dinner with a dozen important people. Her sleep was fab for a while but is now rubbish due to reflux.

BTW, schools can get as many ed psych appointments as they want to pay for but can pay for a package deal that makes each appointment cheaper. Most schools opt for the minimum package of three appointments and only buy more in 'emergencies'. That's my bit of insight as a former school governor. Hope it helps.

cloutiedumpling · 20/09/2013 19:04

Dontstep - sounds like it is worth hanging in there then. I just remember being so miserable in a similar situation.

Bit worried about 2 of the DCs. Why can't life be simple?

Dutchoma · 20/09/2013 20:49

Praying for Tunnocksteacake this evening Lord, watch over them and give them rest.

Tuo · 21/09/2013 00:38

Hello! I got through the week. I am tired, but I got a lot done, and I'm still (just about) standing. Thank you God for stamina and coffee. And thank you to all who prayed.

I am glad you liked the prayer I posted. Like Lollipop, I found it hard to know what to pray when I first started, and I found that sometimes taking someone else's words - and then adding to them with my own, or just thinking about people or situations that they evoked - was useful. The SPCK classic prayers page has a great selection. Another one I sometimes post here, which I clung to a lot when I first started to return to faith is the final part of the prayer of St Richard of Chichester on that site, which I had learned at school:

Most merciful Redeemer, Friend and Brother,
may we know you more clearly,
love you more dearly,
and follow you more nearly,
day by day.

Praying first and foremost for tunnocks and her family, for strength for the fight, and for moments of calm in which you may know God's peace.

Praying for cloutie's DC and for cloutie herself to be free of worry and stress.

Prayers for Room and Mr Room this weekend as they explore a potential curacy. May God make clear whether this is the right place for all of you as a family.

Praying for BES, for healing of mouth and arm and for a not-too-stressful weekend. Praying for your mum too, BES - that she's well and not too confused.

Prayers for Momey in her work situation. I pray that things improve for you soon, and that you are able to take pride and joy in your work without feeling excluded or ganged-up on.

Praying for Ginger's cousin and his wife and their children. And also for Ginger - for a smooth completion of the thesis.

Prayers for PA, for that job that you have your eye on, for your parents, for your DDs - all of them, wherever they may be...

And praying for Lollipop and for her grandad. Praying for peace of mind for the whole family, for love and mutual support, and for Lollipop as she explores her faith. How is he now, Lollipop?

Lots of thanks too... for new opportunities for Mr Attitude, for better bus-rides for Mary's DS, for Blue's completed essay, for better times for MHD, for young Master Attitude's college course and job which are giving him such happiness.

And asking God to be with all who pass this way.

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Kaykat · 21/09/2013 09:38

Lots of things to pray for on here I'm thinking of you all.

I had a weird week. I had the worst moment of my life when for a few seconds thought something terrible had happened to ds then realised everything was ok huge relief and it puts everything else in perspective and I am still a bit confused about what happened it seemed like a miracle.

Then I found out that a lovely work colleague is a Christian on the day she left!

Not much further forward with everything else. H is being very nice and weirdly generous, like he was when we first met and to OWs to reel them in.

Dutchoma · 21/09/2013 21:08

Marking a place for evening prayer for Tunnocksteacake

GingerCurl · 21/09/2013 21:28

Lurking. Praying.

Kaykat · 22/09/2013 09:07

Feeling low today, don't think I'll ever get this mess sorted out, professional people that are meant to help me always let me down, don't think I will ever get my own home.

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