I am dreading telling the kids. The youngest has already asked where he is and I have been passing off J as H. I will tell him, I just don't want to yet as he will blurt it out to the others at school.
I feel like poo. I have been so wrapped up with DS1 I forgot to check on them and their food, etc. We still have his brother and the new addition. I thought his brother had died too as it took ages to get him to come out.