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"Adding" people to Facebook

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NoMoreStupidGuys · 14/07/2025 10:11

People talk about "they added me" or "I added them" but the thing is you don't actually "add" anyone at all, you send them a friend request and they accept or refuse.

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elrider · 14/07/2025 10:17

I don't really see a problem here, I must admit. And I usually agree with posts in PC!

The button does say "Add Friend", so although you're technically sending a request, that is what it says so it's no wonder people tend to say that.

Also, if you accept a request then you are by default adding them to your list of friends, so I can understand that too.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 14/07/2025 10:22

I'm not sure I'd object to it in this case. It's hard to think how else you can phrase it really, as the alternative is the equally beastly 'friending'.

Talipesmum · 14/07/2025 11:16

I find this a bit annoying too - someone saying about how someone they know is being intrusive, saying “they added me on Facebook and now they’re making lots of comments about my pics” etc - just ignore the friend request? Don’t just accept requests from people you don’t know well.

NoMoreStupidGuys · 14/07/2025 15:11

Talipesmum · 14/07/2025 11:16

I find this a bit annoying too - someone saying about how someone they know is being intrusive, saying “they added me on Facebook and now they’re making lots of comments about my pics” etc - just ignore the friend request? Don’t just accept requests from people you don’t know well.

Yes that's it, they can't add you without your consent!!!

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