Am 7 months plus toddler..what did other people do in the same boat or shall i just not bother..wasn't too bothered and kind of thinking would just go for it on 41st but an older friend says it's a special one..any ideas that don't involve getting totally out of it or staying up till all hours(about 9.30 at the mo!)I never did a 21st as ill in hospital and spent 30th on lovely trip to Australia..will i regret it if i don't do anything overthetop..a nice dinner with my darling hubby or close family actually seems quite appealing and lately i've been getting urges to make chutney(!)so perhaps partying days are well and truly over..