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What to do present-wise if your DC has been invited to a "joint party"

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TooMuchCaffeine · 20/07/2009 13:20

DS (5) has been invited to another joint party. Both the "jointees" obviously know each other well, but on both occasions DS only knows/plays with one of the party children.
Sooooo do I only buy a pressie for the one DS knows or do I buy one for both? I work on the assumption that the list of invitees was compiled separately and each child only invited children they know/play with.

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potplant · 20/07/2009 13:22

I would just buy for the child you know.

cat64 · 20/07/2009 13:23

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GooseyLoosey · 20/07/2009 13:23

If dc knew both we would buy for both, even if they only liked one. If we only knew one then we would only buy for one.

Trikken · 20/07/2009 13:23

I would only buy a present for the child your ds knows. if he knew both then he would buy for both. pretty sure thats what happened at joint parties i've been to.

MerlinsBeard · 20/07/2009 13:25

Depends really

DS1 went to a 3 way joint party, we only knew 2 of them and were only invited by that one. We bought a present for the child who invited him and a smaller token gift (in my case just a very small toy) for the others

TooMuchCaffeine · 20/07/2009 13:28

I was thinking along the lines of only buying for the child DS knew which seems to be the consensus here - just thought I'd check first so as not to offend anyone

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ButterbeerAndLemon · 20/07/2009 13:34

We've held and been to joint parties and the consensus definitely seems to be to buy for the child or children you know -- so if you know both, two presents but if you know only one then buy only for that one.

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