None Of my other Siblings or Partners Siblings have had children and so they’ve no idea how hard it is to just pack them up in the car to go anywhere yet always expect us to drive to them. If I didn’t drive to see them (which recently I’ve stopped doing as it’s just stress and I’ve had enough!!) we barely see anyone at all.
& they get annoyed / guilt trip if I don’t come over for some family get together in unbaby proofed houses. Like I cba!
Not only that but no one helps with anything, I’m struggling doing things and no one bats an eye. If they come out with my to places we go they won’t pay for themselves, expect me to buy drinks etc never buy me a coffee of anything that would remotely help a mum with multiple kids.
It’s like having extra children to look after.
Anyone else family just seem useless? I know the world doesn’t revolve around me but a little bit of help would be nice once in a while