I heard a friend of a friend visited the local fire station for her DS 4th birthday where they had a tour of the station, sat on the fire engine and squirted a hose. DS is mad on rescue vehicles and I thought this would be perfect for his 4th birthday too. But I called my local fire station and they said to write in and ask but they thought 4 would be too young for the fire safety talk etc and he couldn't see it working.
They said it was the first request they'd ever had for a birthday but have had Scouts etc round. Obviously I'm not expecting to feed them and have games there. Just thought the kids could have a visit then come back to the house for tea.
I wondered if anyone had actually done this for a birthday or similar.