one party I went to recently had a lucky dip at the end full of pre-wrapped pressies......a box full for boys and same again for girls. fab idea, altho pricy for extra wrapping paper etc!
and then someone else told me about going to a wedding i think, where they had lots of bowls of sweets around, along with paper bags, and they helped them selves to the sweeties they liked. was like the old fashioned 1/4lb sweets in bottles that we could buy.
I have in the past gone to Claires and bought up loads of their little handbags in the sale and then filled them with sweeties, so they get a handbag for the gift, and the sweets that all kiddies expect of parties!!!!
another idea is to go buy up a load of value t-shirts and get them to decorate them at the party, and then obviously take their creation home.......one idea I got from sparkler on MN, and a huge hit with my girls.
ooh.......or you could go buy some of the 'decorate your own' egg cups, get them to decorate with name/flowers etc, and then add a cream egg/smarties egg/hollow chocolate egg even, if the party is going to be near easter. I did that for mine for an easter party last year......best easter party ever.
(oh before you ask....DD1 always has her b/day aroud easter, so tis for that mainly)