How do people cater for multiple allergies at parties? We have about 30 kids coming, some with allergies including nuts and sesame. 5th birthday party. I don't have time to make much from scratch unless it can go in the freezer as working full time. Would you make up snack boxes for those kids, or is that singling them out? Then there's the cake. Do you get a big one then an allergy suitable one for those who can't have it? I really don't want to offend or leave anyone out but at the moment I am clueless