Two weeks ago ds handed out invites to his birthday party which is tomorrow he's 7. Hes invited 10 children plus him and his sister there's a minimum of 12. 1 person has rsvp'd. 2 I had to fb message to see if they were coming, I tried to catch the other mums in the playground one said she hadn't had an invite when I saw my son give it to hers and then he gave it to mum, another said she couldn't get her son there I said we could take him with us she's just texted me to say he now can't come. So I've got 7 confirmed including ds and dd I feel really sorry for ds he was so looking forward to everyone coming and I hope he won't be too disappointed I'm hoping the other 3 who haven't let me know will turn up. I'm annoyed that potentially I've wasted £60 on 5 places where children aren't going to turn up. How difficult is it to text or catch someone in the yard to let them know?