Planning a surprise something for my mums 60th in Feb she is very young in heart soul and body and very active me and dad are thinking about hiring mini bus (20 ppl of nearest and dearest daughters husbands and oldest friends) to go paint balling we are a family who loves doing new things (indoor sky diving, skiing go karting) however my partner thinks it wouldn't be good idea says it really hurts and is quite scary?! Anyone been or have any helpful advise we love doing competitive new things and I really thought we had come up with a great idea aand now worrying oh and to add stop for lunch and couple pints in pubs on way home!