What would you do if you were invited to a shared party? We've had an invite for DS to a shared party for two children who he is friends with at school. Anyway one of the other parents asked me if we were getting them both the same kind of present that we'd get if they were having two separate parties or getting them each a smaller present because it was only one party and not two.
To be honest it hadn't occurred to me to do anything different just because it is a shared party but what do other people do?
What is reasonable/unreasonable in your opinions?