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Thread 56 – Covid GCSE Cohort – Spring 26 – Yr 4 Uni and Graduates

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crazycrofter · 06/05/2026 09:00

The old thread has filled up and no one noticed - I think we're missing @oblomov26 sharp eyes!

I've tried to tag in everyone I can think of, but apologies to anyone I've missed!
@shimy @endlessdistraction @justherewithmypopcorn @mummyinbeds @aslockton @oubliettebravo @craggyrat @anothernewname460 @ealingwestmum @ewwsprouts @seeline @piggywaspushed @nctdn @icanbewhatiwant @comefromaway @heifer @kingscotestaff @delphigirl @zebracat @cantonet @socks1107 @blinkbonny @anneofcleavage

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icanbewhatiwant · 07/08/2026 09:26

@PhotoDadare you retiring? I missed the post where you said you are.
Dh retired from farming back in 2018. He is always finding stuff to do, at the moment he’s helping a few elderly people he knows, with shopping, hospital trips etc. there’s always stuff to do in the garden too. I was a stay at home mum for a lot of years and he worked all day, every day. So it’s been weird being the one to go out to work. I only work part time. I still do almost all the house jobs though, cooking , cleaning, laundry too. Not sure how that happened 😟 I’m sure you’ll find plenty to keep you busy.

Aslockton · 07/08/2026 11:11

@PhotoDadA two teacher household here, are you going from full-time to retirement?

I am going down to 4 days next year, DH is 3 days a week (we are calling it micro-retiring). DH is getting his teacher pension from October. I will try to keep going until I am 60. I have been an Early Years teacher for most of my career, but next year I have a share of a year 4 class for English and Maths 3 days a week, and then Yr 6 science, Yr 4 Science, year 5 RE, Yr 3 Art, year 2 PSHEE. I think I am teaching nearly every child in the school! I have never taught juniors so it will certainly be a new challenge.

NCTDN · 07/08/2026 11:31

@Aslockton when I went to 0.6 this is what I was doing. It was a shock after reception! It was also lovely though to teach every child in the school, but I never had a ‘home’. As science lead it was also good to see progression through the years.

Aslockton · 07/08/2026 11:55

@NCTDN It is good to hear a positive spin. I think I am going to be running round the school from class to class and subject to subject!

NCTDN · 07/08/2026 12:50

Plus no parents evenings 😉

Aslockton · 07/08/2026 13:32

No, I have to go in on my day off for parents' evening as I teach maths and English. I also have 11 sets of reports to do. At the moment, as full time class teacher, I have 8 sets of reports that I write.

PhotoDad · Yesterday 08:01

Yes, I am retiring (early)! Technically I am employed until the end of this month but I happen to be on my summer holidays. I have been working at 0.8 for the past two years, which was a revelation in terms of work/life balance. Due to various curriculum changes, I am being replaced by 1.2 people; I did offer to stay on and be the 0.2, but the school decided to carve those lessons up between a bunch of different colleagues (which will be an "interesting" challenge; but it's not my problem!)

My DW isn't planning on retiring for ages, as she loves her work. I will almost certainly pick up a little paid work if I can, at least until DS is through university. My lump sum is earmarked for a new kitchen and a little cruise, with the rest going into investments. The kitchen was old when we moved to our house twenty years ago, and as I am the main cook I'm very excited!

craggyrat · Yesterday 08:44

Well the PGCE back in C definitely not happening so that's one decision made. DS working on new business- had various London meetings this week so if that comes off could be very good. Two weeks until Army medical so he is concentrating on getting through that (fingers crossed everyone!) and hopefully then getting through the Boards fairly quickly if all comes together. If not and business doesn't work out then he will apply for local PGCE for next Sept. His placements in C if he had taken it were an hour by bus away. At least up here he would have his car. So going to continue with online tutoring for now for income. I find all this uncertainty v difficult but glad he decided to pull the plug on C. He is also local boat club captain this year.

crazycrofter · Yesterday 10:07

At least decisions are being made @craggyrat even if it’s a slow process! He does sound like he has a couple of really good irons in the fire. Would he be able to continue with the business whilst in the army?

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craggyrat · Yesterday 10:29

@crazycrofter I think even if all goes well with Army it would be almost another year before actually starting and his business partner is going to be in London but most of it would be remote. I think their idea is set it up then sell it on but who knows..!

crazycrofter · Yesterday 10:57

That all sounds very exciting @craggyrat ! What a multi-talented young man!

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craggyrat · Yesterday 11:18

@crazycrofter that's definitely not what I'm calling him at the moment but thank you!

icanbewhatiwant · Yesterday 20:48

@PhotoDadsounds good. I’d love to join my husband in retirement. I will once ds3 has finished university. He’s just going into year 13. So that’s a while away!

Aslockton · Yesterday 21:51

@craggyrat That sounds sensible about putting the PGCE on hold. Fingers crossed for the Army medical. What sort of business is your son hoping to set up?

BlueMarigold · Yesterday 22:29

icanbewhatiwant · 07/08/2026 09:20

@BlueMarigoldi just saw your dd is starting as an assistant ecologist in sept. Ds1 is an assistant ecologist. But his contract is March to sept. So he will finish as yours starts. The job he’s doing is mostly surveys, so is during the summer months.

Hi @icanbewhatiwant

It sounds like a very similar role they have!

craggyrat · Today 07:02

@Aslockton he has a non disclosure agreement in place but it is 'something to do with IT software' ...!

All this talk of retirement makes me jealous! I was 59 last week so a while to go to finish but I am only part time. Been told I can WFH permanently once office move happens. That's better than looking elsewhere but I will miss office life a lot, especially with DS at home

craggyrat · Today 07:04

Looking to replace car - test driving 3 today. My picanto has cost a fortune over last 2 years and it is time for it to go. Looking for something a bit bigger and more reliable as DS will share and then buy off me once working full time

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