I want another one... but he doesn't!

[Lucy85]

Advise please - I have a lovely lovely 2 yr old. Gorgeous but pretty much doesn't sleep. We both work full time and are often exhausted and skint and this causes arguments - we've had more (at times serious) rows than we've ever had in the past 2 years.

But I don't have a baby any more! And I'd like another one! But my husband doesn't! What should I do to persuade him?? Any top tips welcome? Or, AIBU (wouldn't be the first time!)

HI

If you are only wanting a DC2 just because you dont have a baby anymore then what happens when this one is no longer a baby? would you keep going??

You have to think serious about why you want another baby as you are well aware with 1 they are hard work LOL

Does your DH give reasons why hw doesnt want another?
Is it just the sleep thing bcos it will come to ane end 1 day LOL she says in the hope as my DD also has sleep issues!

wait, i think. and talk about it
you need to discuss why he doesn't want one, and if it's a don't want right now, or don't want one ever
and you need to tell him why you do want one, and why it is so important to you

i had the same thing with my dp when I wanted to go from 1 to 2 so i know how you feel