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QueenOfQuotes · 21/06/2005 11:33

have to take DS1 to his induction afternoon (2nd one - hoping he doesn't throw up like he did last week LOL) at his new school.........thing is DS2 has his sleep at 1pm-3pm - and the induction afternoon starts at 1.30

So I'm going to put DS2 down for his sleep as usual, at 1.30 on the dot grab the monitor, lock the front door and whizz round to the school to drop DS1 off - then whizz back again

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Prettybird · 27/06/2005 17:50

Left the house at 6 in the morning one cold February day, pouring rain, to drive down to Leeds.

'Cos of the rain, must have left the outside storm door open.

Dh gets up at 7, has his shower, ds, who has just started walking wanders in the bathroom and then wanders away again - pretty normal stuff. Dh finishes shower and goes to look for ds - can't see him anywhere. Goes downstairs, no sign. Goes upstairs, no sign. (Remember, our "main" floor is the first floor).

Goes back downstairs and sees trhat I have left the storm door open. The problem with that is that one of the panes of glass on the inner door has been taken out, to allow the cats to get to the cat flap outside. SO he looks outsdie, can't see anything.

Goes back upstaris, looks again. Starts to panic. The he hears a cat outside - and remembers that our cats (Siamese) can sound like babies, so wonders......

...... Goes back outside and listens hard. Hears the sound of a child crying in the distance. Follows the sound and find ds standing by the far side of the wall of the house next door, wailing, in the pouring rain! (Remember, these are big houses, with fair sized gardens).

Judging by lack of mud on his babygro, he had toddled down the drive way, truned right, toddled along the pavement and then turned right up the next driveway - which is the exact route he takes every night when he comes home from the childminder (the house on the other side of us). But of course - he wasn't home, so now he was lost!

First thing I knew about was when I rang dh at 7.30 to ask how things were !

Now we can laugh at what a car driving along the road at 7 am must have thought at the sight of the wee rugrat toddling along the (fortunately very wide) pavement)

QueenOfQuotes · 27/06/2005 17:53

oh prettybird it must have been awful at the time, but still sounds funny (with hindsight knowing that everything was ok - apart from a cold wet child).

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HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 17:53

did ur dd even know u was going out or did u just sneak out?

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WigWamBam · 27/06/2005 17:54

You seriously left a 13 year old in charge of 4 other children, including two babies?

If this thing hadn't already kicked off, it definitely will now.

HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 17:54

Lol prettybird!

katierocket · 27/06/2005 17:54

Queeneagle - is that a (bad) joke?!

HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 17:55

a 13 yr old is still a child herself.....

katierocket · 27/06/2005 17:55

prettybird - you've told that story a while ago on MN haven't you? it really stuck in my mind.

Prettybird · 27/06/2005 17:57

Dh actually had to go home from work early that day as he just couldn't concentrate - and I have to say, I wasn't the best on my business trip either!

I told the story on mumsnet (my old name) and also at work - and it's amazing the number of people who could tell similar stories, which did make me feel a wee bit better.

Shows our wee boy has an independet streak!

fishfinger · 27/06/2005 17:57

I htink in these situations oyu have to imagine it as newspaper head line QE

in this case your kids could easily be taken into care.they go for a LOT less

Prettybird · 27/06/2005 17:59

You're right kr - in my old name.

About queeneagle - some 13 year olds are mature enough, others aren't. I'm sure she knows her own daughter. I know that all the rest of her posts show that QE is considered and thoughtful mother, before people start to flame her.

Nightynight · 27/06/2005 17:59

QE
if your dad and your bro live so close, why didnt you ask one of them to sleep over?

QueenEagle · 27/06/2005 18:00

She is nearly 14, very mature for her age. Babies are easygoing and excellent sleepers. All the other 4 were fast asleep before we went and yes dd was aware that we were going out; she had her mobile and the house phone and the baby monitor with her, even though the babies' room is just next door to hers.

Regular calls ensured all was well. If there had been a problem my brother would have been there within 2 minutes, literally.

fishfinger · 27/06/2005 18:00

ha! flame!

HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 18:01

If QueenEagle isn't joking, it's really pathetic that you can leave 4 kids purely so you can go enjoy yourself. Imagine how hard you find looking after them yourself when they wake in the night, then imagine how hard it would be for your 13yo dd.

Nightynight · 27/06/2005 18:01

Im a bit ignorant, but babysitters start at 14 dont they?

QueenOfQuotes · 27/06/2005 18:01

this thing is seriously going to kick off you know QE.....

PS - how many votes does a thread need to become a "classic"?? 3 votes now

And far and away the longest thread ever started by me and possibly wierdest too, dumps, julieburchill and tonyparson fighting it out, good mum/bad mum/unfit mum/fit mum, clubbing, ????

PS Harrietsmommie - my DH is from Zimbabwe.

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fishfinger · 27/06/2005 18:01

yes s moke inhilation is so visible from 5 mins away

Nightynight · 27/06/2005 18:03

fishy, I wasnt flaming. My fingers were typing very mildly!

ooer Harrietsmummy "mummy own time" is sacred on mumsnet!
seriously, I am sure that QE was sure that her children were OK, and that would have been the same whether she was going out to enjoy herself or rush her dh to the hospital!

monkeytrousers · 27/06/2005 18:03

I used to babysit for my baby brother then I was 11/12/13... I was too young

HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 18:03

Oh cool QoQ - dp is from Nigeria, but been here for 13 or so years.

QueenOfQuotes · 27/06/2005 18:04

I'd back up that QE is a very sensible person. And I know several sets of siblings, who, as a group could look after their own younger siblings quite confidently. So I should imagine the 13yr old would not only have called if there was a problem but possibly also woken her 11yr old and possibly also 9yr sibling to help.

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QueenEagle · 27/06/2005 18:04

fishfinger, yes I know. I used to be a foster carer myself. For the record, I would never have left them without some kind of adult supervision as they are unpredictable and unknown quantities. I know my own children.

HarrietsMommie · 27/06/2005 18:04

yes, some 13 yr olds are mature enough, but would she know what to do in an emergency?

monkeytrousers · 27/06/2005 18:04

Parties anyone?? Hellloooo!

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