Dear MUmsnet. I joined my partner and her daughter tow and a half years ago. She is almost five years old. Our relationship has been difficult and we have had rows over almost anything. The child is also a difficult one and I feel that she is very jealous of us...she is happy when my partner and I are apart. She also always likes to physically separate us and doesn't like us hugging or kissing. My fears is that she will hate me.Please advise me