She just doesnt bloomin listen
Everything is 'no' atm, and although she has very few tantrums (we had a good lot in terrible twos) the ones she has are dramatic screaming fits at the worst places where i physically cant shut her up and have everyone staring as she needs to be quiet
Triggers include hunger/tiredness which i do try to cover but i need her to be able to manage on a little less sleep/food for five minutes at times with no screaming