I am finding him so difficult all of the time and have began to wonder if I have brought him up all wrong.
He will never do as he is told without a big fight and a screaming match it can be anything from asking him to put something in the bin, to asking him to have a wash or go to bed anything it turns into one hard long argument as he is so stubborn and moody about everything.
He is constantly back chatting and will give out little taps to me and I will tell him off for that and he will come back at me with more anger.
His favourite word at the moment is dip/div/dipstick.
He also expects me and his dad to immediately stop talking and give our full atnetion to him when he wants to talk instead of waiting for his turn and he will scream out to get our attention.
I have really flipped at times with him and it has ended with him in tears.
His is eight and he seems to be getting worse of late and I honestly don,t know how he is going to turn out.
Another problem as well is that he cannot play any of his wii games or computer games without throwing a major wobbly if he can,t complete a task and his behaviour towards me and his da is appalling if we try to help and also have difficulty his wii has been banned many times.
He will tut and moan about the slightest thing he is asked to do and I am at the end of my tether.
Is this normal and will he grow out of this as at the moment I am not enjoying my child and he is going to be my only shot at motherhood was sort of hoping it would be a nice experience.