just told 21 month old

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he was a very naughty naughty boy

and i meant it

all day so tough and also been worried re his toe

plus he kept throwing weater everywhere

and he understood

but boy do i feel bad! real bad as he seems pretty upset

think i ma emotionally blackmailing him without realising in time and feel terrible now

don't feel bad
just give him a cuddle before bed

ive told ds he was a bold boy before. but then ive told him that i was angry and that i meant he did a bold thing. please dont fel guilty, there will be plenty more times when you slip up and say the exact thing you try to avoid saying. as saints said, cuddle at bed and a funny story to get him giggling.

and i shouted at hm again

but he has suddenyl become very ill

i seem to always hit the nail crooked

he is always very cranky when ill and so am i

now is not talking to me