We are having quite a few fiery rows just now. DP is under a lot of stress and not the most mild person at the best of times. He is being quite mean and nasty and just can't NOT row in front of the little ones. Sometimes it is impossible to distract them or take them away (ie in the car) and I feel that I need to calm DP down and stop him doing something silly. To be honest this period has been going on and on with no resolution in sight (just as we think things are calming down, something happens and we are back on panic alert). TBH I am dragging myself along as it is (every time I start to feel up again some hell breaks lose and I am back to square one).
How can I stop the little ones being in therapy for the rest of their lives?