well, ds1's big boys bed is arriving on wednesday. i'm trying to find a duvet for him, but am getting very confused re:togs! should i use a lighter duvet (4.5tog) and put blanket on top? is it not advised to use heavier duvet (10.5tog)? keep reading different things...
should i give him a pillow? again, is a lighter one better (less chance of suffocating)
also any advice on how to manage the big move would be great, am all worked up about it!? was planning on putting him in 'the bed' at 7pm, as he settles v.quickly, but then move him into cot whn i go to bed at 10pm-ish.
ds is 18months old...going into a bed so that ds2 can have his cot (you might call it 'eviction'!)