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Is dd ready for the potty?

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plonker · 21/02/2009 23:41

You know when you think you've got an area sussed, and your dc throw you? aarrggghhhh

OK, Im a huge believer in NOT potty training children, thats is I believe that if you let them, they'll potty train themselves, with the minimum of fuss as long as you encourage them when you see the 'window' of opportunity.

Dd3 however, isn't playing the game, lol.

I have 3 dd's. My older daughters potty trained themselves with encouragement, but it was no big deal. I left a potty around the house and when they started to show an awareness of first doing a wee or poo and then an awareness of needing a wee or poo, I encouraged them to use the potty. No problems.

Dd3, however, knows when she needs a wee and will tell me that she needs one, she knows when she needs a poo and will tell me she needs one, but she absolutely will not sit on the potty

She knows she needs to go, but will hop and jiggle about and then 'go' on the floor.
If I try to make her sit on the potty, she gets upset
Obviously I don't want her to be upset, but in the same vein, if she's showing awareness, I feel that I should encourage potty use. What do I do?

I don't want to put her off, but equally, I don't want to miss the opportunity if she's showing she's ready.

WWYD? Keep encouraging her, or put the potty away for now altogether?

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wrinklytum · 21/02/2009 23:43

What about siting her on a seat on the proper toilet?Or is this an impractical suggestion?

Mummyfor3 · 21/02/2009 23:47

Normal toilet seat?
Child-sized toilet seat insert?
New sparkly potty? One which plays music when filled? Potty throne?
Ignore issue totally and put her back into nappies and try again in a while?

Remind yourself that by the time she is 16 this ishoo will no longer by an issoo... .

plonker · 21/02/2009 23:54

Hmmm, the toilet actually she likes, although she won't, ahem, deposit anything in there, lol. Not sure how practical it is though as dh has spent hours a bit of time sat in the bathroom with her today. It kinda gets in the way of other things to be done.

Like the music idea

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