have you all got incredibly weak bladders? you are confounding me wth the piss 'n' baby question

[Tortington]

granted, t'will happen to any of us occasionally. and i think thats the word occasionally

but really, i can honestly say that i can't remember ever having the conundrum - to piss or not to piss with baby.

you should go before you go out!

Don't know what you do Custardo, but when I go out shopping I like to take my time, meet a friend for coffee, look at a few frivolous things for a bit... There is no reason to assume a shopping trip will take only a couple of hours and no, it is not normal to not go to the loo when out and about, that is why they have public toilets. If no-one used them there would be no need of them. Simple.

Oh you're very wise custardo, but you keep missing the point: IF I go to the loo before I leave I will still need to go in tow hours or less.

I walk into town every day (20 min walk), usually pick up some shopping, go to the park, the library, maybe go for a coffee, meet a friend. We are usually out of the house for 4 hours or so. I always need to go to the toilet at least once. I do wee a lot, and if I have to go I have to go!

I haven't got a urine infection, and I'm pretty sure I don't have continence issues, also i do pelvic floors every day (became a bit obsessed with them after having 3rd degree tear with dd1, that is one continence issue I would like to avoid!)

I guess everyone is different.

Oh and unless I really can't see any other option, i avoid using the disabled toilet.

i can't believe i even started reading this thread...

must be bored

Can't we, as adults, decide if we need to go to the loo or not?