please help dd 3 begin march and

[sheena1]

I just cant get her to use the potty

everytime i put her in pants she has accidents but when she is at nursery for 3 hours in morning she wears pants and uses toilet but refuses at home

what can i do i have tried bribery, force and reward charts nothing is workin im starting to pull my hair out she wont get a place at big nursery if shes still in pull ups/ nappies

can anyone help

Bumping for you.

Have you asked the nursery staff about what they do to get her to use the potty? My DD's nursery keyworker (H) was convinced she was ready to got into knickers when she wasn't religiously using the potty at home, so I was reluctant and the first few times I put her in knickers, she had accidents, which left me doubtful.

However, we went for it a little while ago and she's done brilliantly so H knew what she was talking about.

I must update she has finally started using toilet at home and in pants now still a bit to go but it is a very big improvement since 2 weeks ago just shows u wat a old unused advent calendar can do lol