Ok... so it'll be 3 years in June since he assaulted me in my bed, pled guilty and was exonerating.
He didn't see his kids for the 6 months after that.... phoned occasionally.
Ds is now 7.5 and dd is 4.5 years old. He sees them every Sunday overnight. Only after MANY Solicitors letters back and forth trying to get him to committ to 1 day every week.
He stays with his girlfriend of about 2 years who I get along fine with.
He gave up a Managers job of 4 years in August to work on the fly to avoid CSA payments (don't worry.... that's all in hand, couldn't let THAT one lie....watch this space. ).
Anyhoo.... so far his reasons for saying I'm a scumbag parent are:
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I don't sit at the table with them when they're eating dinner.... I sit 6 feet away in the living room (its open plan).
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I don't bath them every night.
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I'm a slut apparently! Chance would be a fiiiiiine thing.
So... do you think he's got a case for full custody???