I've just finished my second lot of mat leave with ds2 and came back to work 4 days a week last week (rubbish timing) ds1 was out of nappies at 20 months and, I'd say, properly trained (as in taking himself to potty/toilet and realiable) at 2 yrs - he's now 2 yrs 7 months and since I started work last week has been having accidents every day, on Thursday he did a poo in his pants which he has done twice EVER, making me v that I'm unsettling him so much, I guess when I left work last time he was only 17 months so he doesn't remember me not being around
people have said to expect them to go backwards when big change happens but how long does this last? is there anything I can do to help him adjust? I'm not cross at him just feeling very sad that its having this affect, its like he's oblivious to it