a) My parenting is strict dicatorship, my children must obey without question. Their opinons are completely irrelevent.
b) I am in charge, my children do as they are told. However I am prepared to listen to my children's opinons if they are sensible.
c) I see my family as a cooperative group, we try to balance everyone's desires. Ie. sometimes the children get their way. However the adults have as much rights as the kids to be happy.
d) Why do top scientists not acknowledge that my kids are the centre of the universe? My kids run the house and adults are there to serve their kids. My kids will learn from their mistakes even if I see that a decision is unwise.
Ideally I would hope my parenting style is like c) but suspect I am closer to b) and maybe a) if its a really bad day.