I'm wondering if I'll get any responses but most 8yr olds would know what is "cool" or not. Unfortunately my dd1 is under diagnosis for Aspergers and wouldn't know what cool was unless it had come out of the fridge! She does however get extremely upset when she's called weirdo at school which happens too regularly. The last time her hair was cut she was off from school with school phobia for over a week! So what the hell is a good "cool" design for an 8 year old.