Looking for advice from anyone who has experienced what I am at the moment with my 7 week old.
she is formula fed (SMA) 160ml. I assumed she had reflux but I’m thinking maybe something else now?
When she is having a feed, if I remove the bottle to give her a break and burp her she goes hysterical, once I return the bottle she finishes the feed calmly and then the second It’s finished and removed from her mouth she immediately goes back to being hysterical, this includes screaming, red face, thrashing, hands clenched grabbing her face . This then continues for a good 2 hours. This is happening now for every feed day or night.
what we have tried-
We feed her almost bolt upright
We burp her at regular intervals
She is on a teat size 1 MAM bottle anti colic
We try to keep her upright for 20 mins after the feed but the whole time she thrashes about so much that she makes herself sick
Doctor prescribed Gaviscon sachets but I am loathed to use them as it says they cause constipation which she has suffered in the past and we have just got on top of that.
The other thing to add is that she can go in the daytime up to 7 hours without wanting a feed, other times it’s 5 hours. Sleeps soundly once she has exhausted herself.
Also, not sure if it could be relevant but she has a Pavlik harness on for hip dysplasia (has had it on for 5 weeks so far).
I just feel so sorry for her that she’s not enjoying her feed and drifting off into a peaceful sleep. It’s so heartbreaking to watch and I feel helpless 😔 I just want to be the best mum I can and I feel like I’m failing her.