My daughter turned 18yrs old in March this year. Felt freedom and going out very often since then( also broke up with boyfriend short after) She can't hold on to any job, not contributing to the household in any way unless ''forced'' to clean, take the dog out etc. Conversations thousand of times, different ways of approaches, explanations- always in a calm way from a family, friends, even the employers who gave her many chances to come back- never works at the end. We got to the point where she keeps ending up in the hospital after overdoses alcohol and pills paracetamol/ ibuprofen, plus self harm ( 3 times in the past month). Mental health team sent feedback to GP- she awaits for talking therapy but its been 3 weeks and did not hear anything yet. Also 3 weeks on antidepressants as well. Suddenly cut her hair from very long to short and she doesn't like it. She have mood swings all the time, once happy, laughing and sociable, then sad and sleeping closed in her room. Before she turned 18, she had a job, was doing the gym, took care about the dog and we all were in good relations. My daughter don't want to talk about all of this, or cooperate in anyway obviously, but once said she would be willing to go to psychiatric hospital for diagnosis & treatment- mental health team said that she is not in that stage / position yet to be hospitalised. I'm helpless. I'm considering calling out to GP for an appointment and get an advise from them, but don't expect much from them since either the hospital/mental health or GP didn't help much so far. Don't know what to do. I don't mention that my new relationship suffers very badly at the moment as my partner is not coping well and we are falling apart. He is very patient and we both talk to her, giving her advice together and separate but with no result at the end. It's too much and too long already. I feel down as fell and I'm out of Ideas or energy to cope with that anymore. I feel like i disappointed and failed my daughter and my partner.