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Helping DS with puberty

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Acadoomia · 05/11/2026 14:38

My DS is 11. I have raised him alone since he was 6, and his dad isn't in our lives. In fact this is part of the problem in that there are no men in his life at all outside of teachers at school / activities.
When my daughter (now 14) was his current age, I was able to help with puberty. When she needed a bra and when her periods started we went through it together. My DS knows about body changes etc but I have little idea what to expect or how to help. When/how will he start shaving, for example? What else might I need to do to help him? Perhaps I am worrying about nothing but I was conscious of being a good mum for my DD at that tricky time and had obviously been through it myself so knew what was helpful to me.
He hasn't started puberty yet (certainly nothing noticeable) but it won't be long. I have no brothers or male cousins and neither does he.
Do I need to do anything or am I just worrying over nothing?

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JustaSongAboutPingPong · 05/11/2026 17:58

I think you’ll be fine. You can get him a book and he can learn about shaving from YouTube these days Smile

Liverpoolxxx · 05/11/2026 18:24

Am sure the YouTube channel Dad, how do I? has a programme about shaving.

Acadoomia · 05/11/2026 19:56

Liverpoolxxx · 05/11/2026 18:24

Am sure the YouTube channel Dad, how do I? has a programme about shaving.

YouTube is a great idea! I hadn't even thought of that. Thanks.

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SuitcaseAndSecrets · 05/11/2026 20:02

My daughter got my Grandson this book.

dr ranj book for puberty boys uk

Dr Ranj Singh has written main books for boys navigating growing up and puberty in the UK: 1, 2]
How to Grow Up and Feel Amazing!: The No-Worries Guide for Boys (Illustrated by David O'Connell, published by Wren & Rook / Hachette)
Target Age: Around 9–14 years old (recommended 10+).
What it covers: Physical changes of puberty (voice, hair, skin, body changes), hygiene, fitness, sleep, mood swings, mental health, relationships, crushes, bullying, sex, consent, privacy, and online safety.

Then they discussed any concerns. He is 11 next month.. has loads of pubic hair .. his voice is changing.
He is ASD.. highly intelligent and home schooled.
Very brilliant book.

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Acadoomia · 05/11/2026 20:31

SuitcaseAndSecrets · 05/11/2026 20:02

My daughter got my Grandson this book.

dr ranj book for puberty boys uk

Dr Ranj Singh has written main books for boys navigating growing up and puberty in the UK: 1, 2]
How to Grow Up and Feel Amazing!: The No-Worries Guide for Boys (Illustrated by David O'Connell, published by Wren & Rook / Hachette)
Target Age: Around 9–14 years old (recommended 10+).
What it covers: Physical changes of puberty (voice, hair, skin, body changes), hygiene, fitness, sleep, mood swings, mental health, relationships, crushes, bullying, sex, consent, privacy, and online safety.

Then they discussed any concerns. He is 11 next month.. has loads of pubic hair .. his voice is changing.
He is ASD.. highly intelligent and home schooled.
Very brilliant book.

Thank you, this is helpful. I feel quite sad that my little boy is about to change like that 😔

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