Not invited

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12yo boy. Only one of 6 not invited to another’s party. Parents were asking before the weekend about lift sharing - had to say we were not invited, then kids asking DS on Monday why he wasn’t there. I think he had a heads up about it so was quite cool but I feel like shooting off a message to the mother explaining that she created a nasty situation.. I know I shouldn’t but has anyone ever done this and how did it actually turn out?

Dont do it op. At 12, kids have definite friendship groups and parties are usually small affairs. Use this to teach your son some resilience.. it’s not a reflection on you or him.

Don’t do it OP. Let him learn to deal with these things his own way.

Don't embarrass yourself by messaging the other parent, their child can invite who they like!

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I’m assuming 12 so 1st year of secondary? Don’t embarrass him
or yourself

I realise I shouldn’t and won’t but just wondered if anyone ever had..