4 month old and looking at separating

[Leanne1233]

Can I have some advice please 🙏🏻 I have a 4 month year old baby and not happy in the relationship I’m currently in but really anxious of leaving because I don’t want her staying overnight two hours away and away from me around Xmas and to go abroad in the future 😭 too young for her to be away overnight

Why have you made another thread? Everyone told you to say no to overnights. Overnights are not in the best interest for babies and toddlers especially 2 hours away. Also you said your ex currently lives with his mum and sleeps on the sofa.

I'm so sorry to hear this.
With a 4 month old you have a lot of stress in your life.
Do you feel safe? and how long have you felt like leaving him? Could you talk to your health visitor about your feelings?

No, he can’t take the baby overseas without your permission.

Are you breastfeeding?