Looking for advice / similar experiences – 7-week-old baby boy ❤️
I’m hoping to hear from other mums who have experienced anything similar with their little ones, because I’m honestly at a loss with what’s going on with my little boy, Jax.
Since birth, Jax has struggled with what seems to be ongoing digestive and feeding issues.
We’ve had problems with:
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Severe reflux: He brings milk back up after most feeds, sometimes quite forcefully, and seems to suffer with silent reflux too.
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Tummy discomfort: Lots of wind, straining, kicking his legs, pulling them up towards his tummy, arching his back and crying as though he’s in pain.
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Stools: His nappies have been all over the place, from watery and loose to mustard-like and mushy. We’ve had periods of constipation too.
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Congestion and mucus: He’s had episodes of milk coming out of his nose, coughing and sounding congested.
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Possible milk allergy: CMPA has been mentioned by doctors, which has led to 3 formula changes.
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Feeding difficulties: He generally takes around 4oz every 2–3 hours, but doesn’t always seem comfortable during or after feeds.
We’ve tried Cow & Gate, SMA Althéra and Neocate. We’ve also tried omeprazole and Gaviscon for his reflux, with varying results.
We’re currently on day 20 of SMA Althéra. Some things have improved, but we’re still struggling with reflux and his general comfort.
Another big concern is his weight. He’s been dropping across his centile lines, and although the health visitor isn’t overly concerned at the moment, they want to monitor his weight closely. His doctor has now suggested trying Nutramigen.
He’s also been diagnosed with a tongue tie which was assessed and advised not to do procedure and laryngomalacia (floppy voice box).
I feel like we’re constantly changing things, trying different treatments and still not getting to the bottom of why he’s so uncomfortable.
I’d really love to hear from anyone whose baby has experienced:
- Reflux alongside suspected CMPA.
- Poor weight gain despite taking regular bottles.
- Ongoing tummy discomfort and abnormal nappies.
- Multiple formula changes before finding one that worked.
- Laryngomalacia alongside feeding and reflux problems.
Did Nutramigen make a difference? How long did it take to notice improvements? Did your baby’s weight gain improve once their reflux was under control?
I’m not looking for a diagnosis, just some real-life experiences from mums who’ve been through something similar.
He’s only 7 weeks old, and I just want him to be comfortable, feed happily and start gaining weight properly. It’s heartbreaking watching him struggle when you feel like you’re trying absolutely everything. ❤️