just after some opinions or advice …
so bit of a back story was with my ex for a total of 5 years 3 years in we got pregnant now have a 2 year old little boy.
it was not a good relationship we argue so much when I was pregnant and then it continued in to after he was born. I just had enough by the time he was 1. His dad started smoking 🌱 everyday when I got pregnant (not near me at all) but I couldn’t handle the moods . He never had money.
once we broke up he had nowhere to go managed to get a room to rent and for the last year has asking for money ALL the time from me. Not paying for his son, not paying his rent, sending horrible messages if I don’t send money etc … he was seeing our son every Saturday and he would stay overnight and then sometimes a Friday and a Saturday (when it suited him) but that wasn’t always consistent) anyway he’s now been kicked out his place now and has moved 4 hours away to stay with a friend.
I just feel so blooming overwhelmed like I have no idea what’s happening now he’s saying he’s going to find a place there and that he will have our son every other weekend my mind is like how does that work ? I feel sad. I don’t know why?
I just feel a little unsure what the future holds and that makes me feel a little anxious
what would you do now? Or how would you feel ?