Hi everyone
This might seem ridiculous but I’m so worried about it. It’s our ten year anniversary this week so we’re having a night away. The children(8 & 2.5) are staying at their grandparents for the night. The eldest has done it before when their sibling was born. The youngest is very particular and has a speech delay so can’t communicate much and I’m so worried about leaving him. He cries every time I leave him and sometimes gets completely hysterical, even if he calms down I know it’ll be dreadful actually leaving him with him screaming and then I’ll be worried all day. He’s very particular and has his little ways, I’ll tell the grandparents but they don’t listen that much and I’m just worried I’ll get back to a very sad child. I’ve told him what’s happening but he doesn’t understand.
Bound up with this is when we booked it we thought his speech would be better and he would be so much more grown up than he is now but he is still very babyish. He’ll have his sister and his grand parents are lovely and will try their best etc so I’m trying to be rational but nobody really understands.